Saturday, August 21, 2010

Women... Why do you take relationship advice or vent to women who can keep a man?

The only answer you are going to get from them is something mean because they are so angry at men.Women... Why do you take relationship advice or vent to women who can keep a man?
Honey, we know that before we start. We vent to those angry women because at the time, we're angry too, and we want someone who will agree with us. We don't go to them for *real* advice, at least not those of us who have some sense. We just occasionally want someone to fan those flames so we can enjoy our righteous indignation.Women... Why do you take relationship advice or vent to women who can keep a man?
I can see why women do this - a lot of women who ';can't keep a man'; are probably women who could be in relationships, but are not settling for someone who isn't meeting all their needs. Most single women are not ugly, stupid, etc., but are just not captivated by any of the guys they've met enough to let go of their freedom. Women who are in unhealthy relationships and want to get out, probably come to these women for advice because they want to be like those women in a way - they want to be strong enough to get out of unhealthy relationships and stay out until they've found someone who is really RIGHT for them. The majority of relationships that I see are unhealthy, but the people in them are too comfortable and too afraid of being alone to break it off.
The truth is sometimes those women give us the advice we need to here. We already KNOW the answer we just want to hear it from someone else. We're too afraid to say ';it's time to break up / move on...'; So we go to the people we know will say ';men are pigs.. why are you with them?';
Haha, oh boy. Nothing like being with a girl who has friends who couldn't catch a guy with a fish net, yet have ALL the answers when it comes to guys. Such friends have broken up 2 of my relationships.
did you mean 'can't' keep a man? I know a few bitter hateful women and I generally don't take relationship advice from them.
We dont TAKE advice from these other women necessarily. We just want to vent. Try venting to a woman who is head over heels in love...it just doesn't work...lol.

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