I dont feel like a man. I need advice?

I'm 18 years old, athletic with a good diet and health. I have had two long term relationships and in each i have had erection problems. It works like this, during any type of foreplay i am very erect. but when i go to put on a condom or insert i simply go limp making insertion impossible. I've also lost my erection during as well. Or blown it prematurely. I suck prettyy much haha. My grilfriends have both been really understanding and my current girlfirend and i are extremly in love. She tells me not to worry, but it upsets me because i want her so bad and she wants us to be able to have sex as well. It really hurts me. My confidence otherwise is very high and i have a lot going well for me but i have tryed for monthes to find a solution. I have no pressure and im not nervous when i go to grab a condom but i still dont succeed. Im too young for this. I need some adviceI dont feel like a man. I need advice?
Honestly I'd have to say forget the floorplay an me the ideal bf. Then your erection problems cuz my bf did the same thing but after awhile once we became eachothers ';Match'; the erection problem fixed itself. Good Luck and I hope this helps you!~Alison~


OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!


Ladies: this will make you tear up :)


fellas: read it, all of it! :)


1-touch their waist


2-talk to her


3-share secrets


4-give her your jacket


5-kiss them slowly


are you remembering this?


6-hug her


7-hold her


8-laugh with her


9-invite her somewhere


10-let her be with you when you're with your friends


keep reading


11-smile with her


12-take pictures with her


13-pull her onto your lap


14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back


15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can鈥檛 get to her friends. It makes her feel loved


are you thinking about someone?


16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her


17-kiss her unexpectedly


18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST


19-tell her she鈥檚 beautiful not sexy!


20-tell her the way you feel about her!


20 u need to show her you mean it too


21-kiss her on the lips


22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff


23-tell her what feels good


24-make her feel loved


25-buy her stuff. small things can still help


we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things


26-don't lie to her


27-dont cheat on her


28-take her anywhere she wants


29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her


30-be there for her when ever she needs you, %26amp; even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you


are you still reading this u better be its important


31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.


32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.


33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).


34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.


35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she鈥檚 upset, comfort her


remember this next time you are with her


36. When people diss her, stand up for her.


37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.


38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.


39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.


40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible


MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE鈥橲 LOVED


41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.


42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.


43. Take her for long walks at night.


44. Always Remind her how much you love her.


you鈥檒l never know when she needs just a little more love


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Some expectations of a good boyfriend


12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.


11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.


10) Kisses you every chance he gets.


9) Holds you close when your cold.


8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.


7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)


6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.


5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.


4) When people diss you he stands up for you.


3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.


2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.


1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)


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If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:


1. Relax. Dont think so much.


2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you鈥檙e going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.


3. With the ex. If you think she鈥檚 still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.


4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.


Here's a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~I dont feel like a man. I need advice?
just keep your self up. think about what made you get horny and continue to think about that.
I don't think you're being truthful about being nervous. Or you could totally dislike the feeling of the condom. Which is really unfortunate because they're important! Maybe try a different brand of condom and see if that helps. Something is turning you off right when you're about to penetrate. Maybe you can try fantasizing? Just don't tell your girlfriend it isn't her that you're thinking about!!!!