His wife ran away with his best friend, and it has left him feeling so lonely, he has asked me to move in btw, he has a job.
Should I move in with him, I have had a lot of men but never one that worked, I am over the moon with happiness, maybe I can give up two of my jobs, please advise.Can you give advice please, the man in the next?
BE NICE!!! ... See, if you exagerate the nice side of your personality, good things will happen.
I'm so happy for you but don't embrace false hopes. Hopefully this person will bring out the best in you and a cohesive relationship will evolve naturally..
Too early to move in ... he's just next door so seeing ea. other is no problem ... Take your time.Can you give advice please, the man in the next?
Hey mugs, I'm wondering,,,you say he has a job, that's good, but what condition is the trailer in ?
What about a car '; (If it's on blocks in the front yard, uh, ohh, that's not good)
And does your new ';squeeze'; have ALL of his own teeth ?
(It's ok to be missing three or four, and If they're in a jar, on the nightstand, that's alright too)
These are important questions for you to seriously consider because, if his house and teeth are in good condition then he'll take care of you too. ((no kidding, a proven fact)
So, take the advice from ';Dr. Geezer';, and check these two things out before you get serious.
Let us know how it goes and we're ALL expecting an invite to the wedding !
If you already live next to him, why would you want to move in with him? You can see him whenever you want right now...and you don't have to see him if you don't want to...you'll lose that 'luxury' if you move in with him. If it's just so you can give up your jobs...you've already started the relationship out on shaky ground.
No you should not. Why did his wife leave him? Have you known him for a good while? You don't move in just because he is lonely or because you got on like a house on fire! The house could burn out from under you. Rethink this over. Some mistakes are hard to erase. Remember the old saying, 'look before you leap', his wife might come back. Poppy
Time is on your side. give this time . Is he divorced? Who owns the trailer? How's his credit? Is he behind on bill? I am happy for you, that you have found happiness. We all need that. But when the fire goes out. You could crash and burn. Give this a few months first, is my advice. Good luck honey.
I hope you are happy but think long %26amp; hard before you jump over the fence, that can be a big messy step or can be a state of bliss! I'm sure you already have a path from your door to his, zip back %26amp; forth while you figure this out. Why did his wife take off, according to him?
Is he going to support you? Who controls the remote control? Is he a neatnick or slob? Aren't you going to miss your solitude??
Good Luck!
BTW: House on fire doesn't last long, you're then left with ashes.
Darlin, why don't you wait for someone who can take you out of that trailer park? I think that a change of scene is called for. Good luck--
Oh what about poor Benny, you have raised him since he was a child, and you have all those cats to think of,, oh well let the cow jump over the moon
Just on a personal note. I would never give up my independence for a Married Man. Wifey left for a reason. I've heard it said that ';There's his side, Her side, and the Truth';. Step softly my friend.
Don't do it. As soon as you move in he'll have to quit his job...you are far too good of a caregiver, from what I've read! Good luck %26amp; take it slow this time around!
No-one here could possibly know. Listen to your heart, but tread carefully and slowly.
I assume you are aware of the reason his wife did a runner.
Give it time. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. You will know more if you wait a bit.
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