How to get my boyfriend to not cheat? i also need a mans advice. help!?

my boyfriend of 2 years has always been so faithful to me, and it seems like all of a sudden something hit him and he wants other girls. he tried to break up with me so that he can be ';concentrate on school'; for a little while. then later he confessed he really wanted to mess with other girls, but knew he could never cheat on me. I think its his friends who have gotten to him because they're all dogs, and he's the only one out of the group that is settled down. hes my best friend and i already know im not gonna leave him. i already tried and i just cant do it. what do i have to do to make him want ONLY me again? do i sex the hell out of him till hes whipped again? if so, what can i do?


HELP!How to get my boyfriend to not cheat? i also need a mans advice. help!?
Be exciting, be yourself, that's all you can do. The fact of him concentrating on you is up to him and him only. Hes obviously curious about trying something new.. spice up your relationship... you know what he likes.How to get my boyfriend to not cheat? i also need a mans advice. help!?
Um, theres nothing you can do. Despite all your efforts, he will do what he wants. He obviously doesnt love you enough if he feels he wants to be with other women. He is telling you to your face he wants to be with other women...he even tried breaking up with you so he doesnt cheat on you. Dont waste your time and energy. If you stay, be prepared for find numbers in his pockets, lipstick on his shirts, and scratches on his back.
well i am a guy so i know wats wrong. if u have been holding out on him then u really arent giving him a reason to hang around. if not then he is probly doing this because he has been noticing other girls and is still being attracted to them. what u should do is try and do something that is going to keep him around have him fall in ,ove with u again.
My boyfriend always told me that if he wants to cheat he will cheat and nothing will stop him. When he was in college he cheated all the time but we had a baby so somehow we still stayed togethrer threw it all. now it's been 13yrs but i never forgot what he said. there is nothing u can do to stop him.
Let him get it out of his system. You need to go meet some guys too. I've been through this many times - getting myself all wrapped in one guy. It may take a while to find another, but you will. You've got to learn to control your emotions and realize love can be controlled. If you can't control it all the better reason to move on with life.
You're going about this ALL wrong. No matter what you do, he is going to want to experiment with other girls, and won't be satisfied until he does. If he hasn't cheated yet, he most likely will. Drop the loser and move on, find someone who appreciates you!
if your guy doesnt love you enough not to cheat, then hes not worth your time and faithfulness. i know you dont want to hear that, but there are better fish in the sea. maybe if you cheat he'll see how you felt when he cheated. but i'd break up with him.
try sitting down and talking to him about it, if that doesn't work, try to ask him why he felt he needed other girls, and eventually you will know what to do with the whole thing, it should get better once the truth is out.
There is nothing you can do to 'make' him want you. It sounds like he want to be free to experience other women. Let him. If you do not he will come to resent you.
Sometimes people truly grow apart, and there's nothing you can do about that.





However if he simply wants to be more satisfied sexually, you can help him out there
Ironically, the only way to wake him up is to walk away. Men can be stupid that way. They won't appreciate what they have 'til they think they can't have it any more.
You need to talk it out with him. If it turns out to be someone influencing him maybe he needs to distance himself from them.


If it's himself changing then maybe he needs to grow up a bit.
I'm sorry honey,if your boyfriend wants to play the field,there is nothing you can do to stop him.
welll...theres nothing much you can do, just try to keep him faithful any way possible :\
Once a cheat always a cheat..Dump the sucker and get one who has control over his pecker.
When he's done having fun messing around, he'll come back to you.
No man settles down before 30. If he tries he regrets it.
try talking to him, sex isn't the answer
Well, I have to say at least you guy has some morals. He did break up with you before he went out screwing around. There are probably many reasons he wants to go and try different girls. In time he will regret it. I know it will be hard, but let him have his fun. Try to not call or see him. Once he feels that he lost you, he will come running back. As far as the ';sexing him to death';, life has more to offer than just sex. Don;t get me wrong, sex is very important, but not what a relationship should be based on
Why are u risking to disrespect yourself to sleep with him till he's whipped? He's been in a relationship for two years. That's two years with sex with the same person. He needed a break. Men and women do the same thing except men are quicker to do it since they run on a more sexual operating system where women operate on emotions. You cant MAKE him want you only. You have t omove on. When you do that, he'll come back out of jealousy and realizes what he missed. Works both for men and women. Just let him go if he wants other people then let him. Go live your life and he'll want to be back in yours. Sex whipping isn't good cuz he will probably do other girls on the side along with u
Ok-- I don't know how old you are .. but you sound a little desperate. Where is your self - respect?? If he wants to leave -- BYE! It's that simple. Ok, technically.. it's not that simple.. but you cannot beg a man to stay with you!! It doesn't matter if its his friends, school, other girls.. whatever it is. He doesn't respect you knowing that YOU pretty much '; cant leave him'; . What does that mean? I've tried.. but I can't do it. That sounds so sad. You really need some self love and self respect. No one deserves to deal with someone who is debating being with them. Trust me- once he feels that You dont need him.. because you are this independent person.. he will second guess what hes saying.. Or, if not-- and he really wants to leave.. then he wasn't the one for you. I'm sorry.. but you sound really sad.. and I'm trying to help you! My logic is.. '; a man is going to do whatever he wants to do.'; Period. If he doesnt call, doesnt show up, doesnt want to be with you-- its b/c he didnt WANT TO. Dont believe all the other excuses. Good Luck
Oh look it sounds like you guys are both young (well probably a whole lot younger than me) - if you love someone let them go...i forget the rest but basically its about letting someone go and if its meant to be they will come back. Depends on what you want. If you want THIS relationship where you will be just always wondering about your boyfriend and what he is up to (I mean REALLY he says that he wanted to mess with other girls and you think he wouldnt have sex with them...get real!!!) OR do you want to be with someone who you can trust. I think you know the answer to your question. Get rid of him, you are better than this. I certainly wouldnt be settling for second best. No matter what you think, sex might whip him again for a while, but its not gonna be forever and sure enough he will be off sniffing around some other chick. Move on. If HE is good enough for YOU it will happen.