Thursday, July 29, 2010

Need some advice on a VERY confusing man... PLEASE, ADVICE?

Ok I need to know wut the hell is going through my ex's mind. We broke it off recently, We were dating for over a year and a half and I do know that he loves me, as do i him, and he knows i treated him right, but my life situations have come in between us. I know he is hurt, but on the other hand he's so fuc*ing cocky and into himself sometimes it's hard to believe he even cares.





So here's where i am confused,Yesterday he pissed me off by saying things about my family so i told him i was happy to have never had his child and i give up on him. He ended up avioding the whole point of the message and bringing up how great our sex life was and inviting me over last night. so i went over and we had a night together. Do you think he invited me over bc the comment i made to him hurt him to hear and from that he is wanting to get me back? or was it only an invite for sex?





Please no rude remarks, breakups are hard enough, I am only trying to figure out what he is wanting from all thisNeed some advice on a VERY confusing man... PLEASE, ADVICE?
It's a power thing. By having sex with you again, it reaffirms that he has sexual power over you that you can't resist. In other words, you put up a good fight, but when push comes to shove, he can still have you when he wants. Friendly advice: If you want to ';submit'; to a man, submit to someone who loves you and will watch out for you.Need some advice on a VERY confusing man... PLEASE, ADVICE?
It was strictly a booty call. I doubt he even heard (or listened) to a word you said since it had nothing to do with what he said. Nothing is hard to figure out here, he wanted sex. What you need to figure out is WHY you actually went over there and spent the night with your ex?!? All he wanted was sex, so what did you want out of it, especially after the guy insulted you?
If he really wanted you by his side, you'd know it. Probably only about sex now. I'd cut ties and find a new fish in the sea you really like and who wants you back!
He's your EX right? Why do you care what your EX is thinking, or feeling? When relationships are over you're suppose to move on from that person, not still act like it's a relationship.
You already know the answer to this. You're not very nice to each other. You're not married or divorced so your question should not be here.
He was horny, and you came over and took care of it for him. You are now a booty call.
Dumb ho, you got USED.
It may have been a sex invite..and even if it was and it's something that you don't mind, please don't get caught up in the situation. Believe it or not.. some men would get you pregnant on purpose. Even though they may not want to be with you, it could be their way of keep the part of you they enjoy for the rest of their lives.. I just started reading the new book by Steve Harvey called Act like a Lady, Think like a Man..go to walmart and get it.. it's some great insite on some situations with men that women may never understand otherwise.. Take Care and good luck

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