Saturday, July 31, 2010

Does anyone have any advice for an American man who is about to marry a Russian woman?

In a couple of months my fiancee will come to me here in the USA and we will marry. To answer your obvious questions:


No, we did not meet through the internet we met while I was working in Russia.


Yes, I have seen her and I know her better than most men know their fiancees.





Anyway, I just thought that since other people have done this perhaps you could let me know what I can do to help her adjust and be happy. Spasibo!Does anyone have any advice for an American man who is about to marry a Russian woman?
Learn Russian! If you have that mastered, you are ahead of the game. She will appreciate that, unless she is very fluent in English. Make sure she gets some time to learn about her new culture, don't expect her to sit at home and cook all day. Give her passes to local museums, art galleries, sporting events, concerts, anything. Learn Russian cuisine and make her meals that remind her of home, while introducing her to ';American'; foods.





Plan weekend getaways and spend lots of alone time with her. It can be lonely and overwhelming to move to a new and scary country.





Good luck!Does anyone have any advice for an American man who is about to marry a Russian woman?
I suspect that she will soon advise you herself on what you can do to make her happy..... As you're already her Fiancee, then you must be half way there already..........The very best to both of you !.
Be the best fiance ever. Shower her with kindness and gifts and make her feel at home. She's moving around the globe to be with you so you must be doing something right.
I don't know but you should try talking to her about things that would make her comfortable! I am very happy for you and your to-be wife, and I hope you two have a great future. Maybe wikipedia Russian culture,





Blessed Be








- Don't listen to the people who are sterotyping your wife, they don't know her.
make sure when she comes that she says that she doesnt plan on marrying anyone in the US when she is at Customs. Otherwise, they will most likely deny her entrance into the US. Just have her say she is visiting friends and touring.
She will break you!
well, my advice is don't do it unless you are 100% positive she is the real deal.





if you are convinced you must marry her then when she comes to america try to make her feel as comfortable as possible. make sure she knows that she can still hold on to her russian culture, she doesn't have to completely give that up to be an american. answer all her questions to the best of your ability. just think back to when you went to a place that wasn't familar to you. such as a new job. how did you feel? what things made you feel better and more comfortable? Be as supportive as possible and don't get fustrated if she doesn't understand certian american ways of doing things.





good luck


%26amp; congrats!


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RUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
be very careful. that is all i want to say.
Yes-DON'T!!!!





I know tons of ';Russian Brides'; at work and they all ';fall in love'; with Americans, come over here, and send for their mothers in a few months. They'll rule your life, push you around and make your life miserable. Do it only if you want to hand your balls over and never see them again.





LMAO at ';Russian women are hot';- which ones, the ones with mustaches or arms bigger than my waist?
Get a prenup. She might be shell shocked if she never came to america, i am not saying she will do anything bad, but the temptation is there. keep your money to yourself, and if she loves u she will sign.





Good Luck
She's gonna be hard to communicate with.
good luck, buddy. When it comes to certain cultural differences, take it in stride.
well it helps if you know her but lock down your assets for 5 yrs till you know for sure. i know a lot of scams and drama from loads of men who marry russian women and asian.thai women... manipulative and greedy and dominating after a few momnths when they get what they want and then pull the abuse card once they find out how that bloody works. lock her in a prenup.. if she doesn't do it then you know she is a scammer and liar. sorry.
I think the best thing to do is make sure that she really loves you and is not just looking for a greencard





No offence but it has happened before








If it's tru love...and I hope it is , introduce her to all of your friends....maybe take some extra holiday time when she comes over so you can help her adjust , etc








good Luck and Congrats
they are strong
she does not speak english?


well then, if she has problems with that, might as well helping her out with what ever has to do with her english.








put it like this, if she feels good with you, if she feels welcomed in your home and as youe wife, she will find her path and make it through here in the usa.


all you have to do is show her you love her (that is of course if you really do and this really isnt one of those pick through the net russian girl kinda thing) be romantic, support her when she needs it, and just be there for her always when ever need!!








good luck.
congrats. Russian women are hot.
learn hecca good russian


and how to cook russian food


nothing reminds you of home like food and language

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