What do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?

There is a guy who was after me for the last one month.He told me many times he is in love with me and i fall in love with him too.He is acting funny with me lately,he tells me recently that he is very busy with work and all the crappy stories of him being busy.If he is not interested in me anymore i think it would be more respectable for both of us if he told me Im not interested in you and I would stop calling him.The sad part is that he is not straight forward and he keeps ignoring my calls and says he is loaded with work which I think is bs.I think he is not truthfull because nothing has changed his work and i know that.I love him so much now but i never wanted our relationship to reach to this stage.I thought if me and him never end up together atleast we could be good friends and if what im thinking is true then i think that wont be happening as well because i wouldnt want to be a friend with a jerk.Do you think i should stop calling him? And he told me lately to stop the drama which i don't really understand.Anyways would like to know what is the best advice you could give me regarding the man?





Thanks alotWhat do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?
Definitely don't call him anymore. This shows self respect. Sounds to me like he probably has another lady friend and hasn't told you. If he told you to stop the drama, then he's over it. You can't control the situation, so even if it hurts, show your self respect and let him be. If he does like you in some way, friends or other, you will see him come back around faster if you leave him alone now. Men are like rubber bands, women are like waves. (quote from Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus). When a man separates himself for space issues, the sooner you leave him alone, the sooner he comes back. The further you push him not respecting his quest for space, the longer it takes for him to come back around.What do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?
Stop calling him. He's making it painfully obvious that he doesn't want to pursue anything at this time, so don't keep pushing the issue. He seems like an insincere man, to be telling you he loves you and then suddenly backing off like this. Sounds to me like you might not have been the only girl he was saying all that to.
i think his goal was to get you and once he got you it was no fun it's like he was playing a game and men they like to achieve things and once the schieve thing they move on to the next challange so b4 he moves on i say you beat him to the punch and move on k
It should be clear to you that he's not interested anymore. If he was, he would make time for you. Stop calling him and find someone who actually cares about you and wants to spend time with you. If you don't you'll just be making a fool of yourself.
Hot in a relationship you are doing two things in the relationship. One is you are contributing or contaminating. It sounds to me like there is some contamination going on here from him. Don't settle for anything less that what you are giving.
Try meeting a new guy, then if he acts jealous then you know he still likes you. You don't have to be more than friends with the new guy but if the person you love cares for you it will be enough to make him realise that you feel uncared for.
It's only been a month and you're not even actually together and you're in love with this guy? PLEASE get some counseling. And stop calling him. Just take the hints.
Leave him before he tells u it is over.There are many men better than him.
Sounds like he was leading you on from the start..


Dont waste your time on him!
Men HATE being ignored...it will be hard but you have to do it. You will know after a few days what's going on... If he can't ';man-up'; move on
Stop calling him. Sounds like he's been leading you on.
I don't think that he cares about you, if he did, he would've at least warn you that he'll be busy at work and therefore he would've needed some space from you and he'll make sure you won't think anything negative about him. If he loved you, he wouldn't ignore your call or at least he would've returned your call if he got missed calls from you,he'll put some efforts into it.But that's only IF he loved you and cared about you. I'd say don't waste your time for him