So i have given head to my last boy two times, i was a beginner and didnt really know what i was doing but i guess i did alright, because he 'came' and he liked me better then previous girls.
But now i meet this new boy; we really like each other, and i gave him oral the other night.
Didnt go so well, it felt like i was sucking for dayyss, all i could think about is when is he going to 'come'?? my jaw started to hurt. But i was determined not to just stop :/ Then he said use your hand more. So i incorperate my hand more in the process.. but still no good. So he said just use my hand. And i did. But he STILL didnt 'come'! ugh. So i felt bad when he had to get up and finish it off.
But im just so confused disapointed why i couldnt get him to.. i mean what did i do wrong? I used some tongue technique, deep throat, NO teeth, not like it was my first time..
is it HIM or ME??
how long does it usually take for you/ your lover? Why does the time vary?
any experience out there?
thanks :c]Soo, when you give oral to your man.. little advice?
Sometimes its just the guy, different things do it for different people and depending on many things it may be harder for some guys to get off during head. But as long as you have good technique and do whatever it is the guy says he likes you have no reason to worry, if he doesn't get off its his fault not yours. Just keep trying different things until you find out what works. Whatever you may try don't forget to try to create a suction of a sort a bit like sucking a straw that is the difference between horrible and wonderful for me at least.Soo, when you give oral to your man.. little advice?
No some just don't pop off with a BJ and can only with normal sex or by themselves.
Its Him not you
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all guys are different... some are easy to finish and some are more difficult. so its not you... its def. him
this is actually pretty ironic becuase i talked about this with my partner tonight.. ';its just not the same when some one else does it for you, because they dont know exactly what you want, only you yourself knows what can really hit the spot.';
if you really want to do it for him, you gotta communicate. you have to just be open and ask, ';what do you like, what feels the best, what will make it happen for you';
good luck and remember, practice makes perfect. :)
Different boys come differently.
some get really excited %26lt;.%26lt; and come really easily, and dont last that long, and some take a lot longer to come, and last what seems like forever. Its not either of you lol, its not his fault that hes not like your last, and its not your fault because he takes a long time to come. This has actually kind of happened to me before %26lt;.%26lt; lol. uhmm now it doesnt take thattt long, but try other things than just blowing him (regular sex,unless your like saving yourself, uhm or just rubbing your %26lt;.%26lt; on his %26lt;.%26lt;) trying not to be too explicit., and then get him close and then start, it will be alot easier and he can finish up like that. Also when your blowing him, focus alot more on the head :) its the most sensitive. good luckk
Hey, look, here are some tips for you that might help.
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his **** tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like ';mmmmm I love it'; then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and **** it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
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