Fast forward to a few weeks ago, after awhile of everything being cool, im back on ignore for doing something without her while she was away for weekend. Ive never had these kind of things happen with my male friends. Dont want this to sound bad, but is this typical behavior for women in friendships? It makes me feel like dirt, I want everything to be cool, but quite frankly im tired of being treated like trash she can bend over and pick out the can every few weeks.
How do I proceed form here, im very stressed right now and not sure how to proceed, i want to work things out but I cant get thru. Am i fighting a losing battle and just hurtn myself?Friendship advice between man and woman, why is she always pissed?
Sounds like she's struggling with some feelings for you. If so, she obviously isn't going to approach you on it so you may need to be the assertive one on that issue. If you find out where you stand you'll be in a better position to make a choice on whether to keep this yoyo going or cut it!Friendship advice between man and woman, why is she always pissed?
There might be reason for anything. Pls approach her politely and ask about her being upset. Pls tell her that you want to maintain good friendship for life long and if she had any complain let you know. Dont change your heart. Show that you have the same feelings and not changed. You will win.
i have female friends and this is not typical. yours souds like a passiveaggressive, selfish drama queen with no concern for anyone but her own feelings. does she ever show remorse for somthing SHE has done that is offensive? even if u dont ask for it?
i think the problem has gotten worse BECAUSE you are so forgiving. i am not saying it is a bad quality.i am simply saying certain types take advantage of that quality. there are women out therewho will not treat you this way, i promise
u just have to find them
kick this self-involved person to the curb
also, tell her that the healthy way to deal with anger is to talk about it and not blow ppl off and not tell them WHY you are mad.....
hate that crap...
Why are you this stressed over a friend. Yeah, all girls act like this. Haven't you figured it out yet?
there could be a few reasons.
if it were me, i'd be mad at something for a while, then when i suddenly realized how stupid it was, then i'd be embarassed how dramatic i acted, so i'll just pretend that nothing ever happened. but that's just me.
but most of the time, girls accidentally make more drama then there should be. if something happens, they'll talk to their friends about it (which'll get them even more worked up about the situation), so they'll just ignore you. then once they get over it, it's just akward to bring up the drama and ';share feelings';, so we'll just act like nothing's wrong.
i'm sorry we're so weird like this :] but goodluck.
she is a woman. they are all that wya
Not all women are like that. Just like men, some of us are difficult to live with and some are easy to live with. Since you are best friends, why dont you ask to just tell you what pissed her off, you can try to explain why you did what you did, and then discuss it. Tell her that silent treatment and ignoring you will not solve the problem. Tell her that it makes you sad, you not being friends even for a while. As for you, she is your friend, you have to accept her as she is. Try to avoid doing things that makes her angry. It is difficult but that is how sometimes a friendship is tested.
did you ever think that maybe she might like you more than just a ';friend'; as for proceeding just sit down and talk to her with no distractions around you. Make sure you make her realize how you feel. COMMUNICATION is the key with ANY relationship!
Her feelings obviously go deeper than just friendship if she is letting little things like that get to her.
Yes it's probably a very hard thing to do but maybe you could discuss it with her. My womans intuition is that she is extremely fond, attached to you and possibly even loves you!
Talk to her!
If you really don't think she has deeper feelings than she is showing on the surface then i suggest calling the friendship quits, it will be too hard on you to keep puttting up with it.
All women are not this way... but thanks for the ignorant comment gabyandbilly...
I have always had mostly guy friends and I'll tell you right now they wouldn't stand for that crap from me.
A friend is a friend is a friend is a friend and should never treat you that way.
It sounds like either she has a serious mood disorder (no kidding), is jealous because she doesn't have other friends like you do, OR she likes you. None of which gives her a free pass to be a bi***. You really should talk to her, but I would be careful how I approach this one.
Seriously, you need to tell her to stop the immature bullsh**. If she doesn't, tell her to hit the road, you don't need that constant drama and stress in your life and that's not a real friend!
p.s. Be nice and ask what's up and tell her you love her as a friend, but that the way she acts just isn't cool and you can't deal with. She'll have to grow up or walk away...
Talk to her. Tell her that you do not understand why she does this, and that it really hurts you. Tell her that if she can not talk things out with you, then maybe you are not best friends after all. If she does it again after that, do not respond to her any more. Just tell her that it is too much drama.
easy,just leave her and do like the way she done to you.how do she feel like that huh!! correction-not every women like that. friends like that you choose is just like childish.throw her back to the future when she's in 5 years old.
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