Sunday, July 25, 2010

Urgent man advice needed about this guy I really like? Thanks!?

Well we met a month ago in an interest group %26amp; even though we live in diff countries have been emailing/chatting even calls with cam for hours as we really like each other. I know he is single (through contact in the interest group). He said he wants us to meet up so last time we talked a wk ago, he said it would be next wknd...he would try to get days of %26amp; if not, I would go to him. He is v busy with job (I know this is true). So during the last wk, we have just messaged early am or late at night but have not chatted %26amp; he hasnt called. Last contact from him was 3 days ago..just saying he was busy but as usual affectionate. That night I just said 'hi' but there has been no contact since. I think it is a bit strange. What should I do? I am a bit upset now as I really like this guy but feel he should contact me to update me on our 'plan'. Sensible advice please.Urgent man advice needed about this guy I really like? Thanks!?
Forget about it. These distant relationships have a way of leaving you empty, bored and disappointed in the end. Find another person to boink, who is nearby and be happy. Get over this one by moving on. Shut down that Cam and get a life.Urgent man advice needed about this guy I really like? Thanks!?
i've got to agree, no-one is too busy to spend 5 mins thinking about someone with an email or txt, unless they are out of the country and uncontactable.





don't chase him, let him come back to you - if he wants to.
sorry hun but i think you should forget it - you wont like the sound of this but if he really wanted to contact you there are means and ways regardless how busy he is - a text message/email wouldnt take all off 3minutes out of his day - imagine yourself if you did meet and it all went well, would you like to be back to this everytime you mean??? long distance are hard work - imagine not being able to hang out during the week and the weekends.......you must tink of your own life as well as him in commiting yourself to a long distance relationship - in saying that if you feel you want to risk some emotions and try it out - go for it!





good luck xx

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