does he love me? who is givin more in this relationship?
ok he is amazing he calls just to tell me he loves me but sometimes never calls. he will walk three hours in the sun...or three in the mornin just to c me. he will kiss me in front of his friends n risk everythinggggg for me. but when i were something like short shorts he gets mad..jelous...he has trust issues du to his past.. but is gettin over em. he will not be treated like a ****** by me...if i even sorta try him he willl walk away..even agter comin all that way to see me. if i dont cANCEL plans to c him even when theyre may not b a chance of seein him he gets asshole mode n says weelll forger bout seein me all this week.. he uses the fact i love him to his advantahe i think.. but then he apologizes, he leaves freinds for me...leaves work... but has control issues...what do i do? uhhh arnt gurls supposed to be the confusing ones..Man advice?
Number one, a guy that respects you should NOT control what or how you wear it. If he has a problem he should be poite and mention it. Not get pissed and angry. That's not healthy.
I think he might be testing you to see how far you will let things go. Stand up and tell him to cut the crap. Head games are for immaure guys. Tell him to be up front and honest.
He shouldn't control what you do. Real love isn't like that. It's one thing if he comes to you and tell you it's bothering him. It's another if he is bossing you around and being an a** to you.
You should tell him to either cut the games, or find someone else to deal with it. He might have some issues and he might love you but that doesn't mean he should take it out on you.
Love is not about controling someone. It's about accepting who you are.
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