I ned Men advices - please give me some advices...?

I went on 2 dates with a guy. He didn't reply to my last text last Thursday (we went on our second date last Tuesday).


On Saturday, I bumped into him and he apologised directly for not texting me back cos he was busy. He said that he was going somewhere this afternoon and he invited me, I told him to call me when he's going because I was on my way to have lunch with a friend.


He finally texted me in the evening to apologise that he couldn't be in touch earlier and his plan was cancelled - and he said that we should catch up next week. I answered yesterday and set a day cos i am going away next Thursday; and I am still waiting... I am very confused - I don't get it at all! He texts to apologise propose to see each other/ invite me around with no reasons... I really don't know what to do and how to react. I am lost and confused and need advices!!!I ned Men advices - please give me some advices...?
Well he sounds like he doesnt really now what to do himself by the sound of it, i think he might like you he just doesnt want to seem to forward or fast so is giving you sum time to stew and see if you call him or txt him, so dnt worry to much about it theres lots of blokes that are slow and laite with msg lol give him one last text and just tell him you dont like to be messed around and to be straight up with you.I ned Men advices - please give me some advices...?
I mean he wants to see me again.

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Sounds like he is trying to be nice about letting you down. He doesnt have the guts to tell you he doesnt really want you/ have time for a girlfriend. I suggest you move on. The downside being, probably, as soon as you do move on, he will become more interested in you. This is the classic elastic band effect as described in the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. As soon as you pull away, he will spring towards you!!!!
it sounds like dude is just either extremely busy or he's avoiding you.


if i'm that busy, i'm not gonna waste the other persons time by making plans then now coming through on them.
You need to move on - this guy isn't 100% in to you, if he was he'd be texting you all the time and replying to yours.





dont waste your time on him