UrGeNt man advice please? Just met a guy...we are friends but I like him!!!?

I've just met this guy and we get on great, good chemistry and good friendly chats and all that. We met in a cyber common interest group and have talked even with cam, so we like each other. I was also able to check him out, that he is single and all that. Well we live in different countries but he wants us to meet. I happen to have to go to where he lives for work in a couple of months. So this evening he said to me, we're going to talk lots..it was out first cam conversation. I'm quite a bit older than him but he's told me age doesn't matter %26amp; that he likes how I am and how I look. He said, we can be friends at least. I am attracted to him too. Then he told me he had just met a girl on a chat and he might meet her. He asked if I'm going out tonight and said 'you might meet someone'. Then I said, 'you must have lots of girls, you look good'. He said, don't worry, I'm a good guy and I'm single now. He said he doesn't really know about this girl he has just met how it will go. What do you think? Why is he telling me these stories? I feel like saying to him 'if you are dating, then I will not meet you when I come to your place'. I would hate that as I am attracted to him.UrGeNt man advice please? Just met a guy...we are friends but I like him!!!?
I don't think it sounds like he returns the feelings for you. If he was interested... even if he was dating other girls... he wouldn't be telling you about it.





I would definitely not meet up with him unless I thought he was into the relationship like I was. Otherwise... you might just become a booty call, and no girl wants that!!!





I think he is trying to let you down easy by suggesting you go out and meet someone and by telling you he's dating, but not seriously. These are strong hints that he's not into you.





Straight out ask him! It's easier on the computer to express something like this. Say something like.


';I see our relationship as something that could become a ';serious'; relationship, not just friends. What do you think of our relationship... do you return my feelings?





He'll either be ecstatic that you feel the same, or give you more of the same bs he's been feeding you about dating other people.





If he does say he's into you... what do you plan on doing about it? Unless you live where he lives... you'll never know if he is dating other people or what. He could just be using the internet to pray on women for his own gain. Be cautious if he is romantically interested in you back. If he wants a relationship with you... make sure you set the ground rules about ';not'; dating other people.





Good luck!UrGeNt man advice please? Just met a guy...we are friends but I like him!!!?
r u gay!!!


:0

rimmel