Me and this guy haven't seen or talked to eachother in about 2 1/2 years. We used to be really good freinds and hung out a lot. About a month ago I found him on facebook and we've been writing on eachother's walls since. He's really really talkative and friendly and nice when he writes back-And he writes a lot =). Anyways, so I want to hang out with him...Do you think he wants to hang out? If he does, then why hasn't he asked?
P.S. We are both 16.All I need is a MATURE MAN'S advice plzz!!!?
He's probably just shy. It's a lot less stressful to talk to people online then to be with them in person. Ask him out. He's probably hoping you will make the first move.All I need is a MATURE MAN'S advice plzz!!!?
maybe your not the only one in his life, im not tryin to be mean but maybe he hangs out with allot of friends and is popular.
well im 15 so i must be a mature man huh?
Anyways yeah im sure asking him out to starbucks for coffee isnt a bad idea or sumtin like that
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Omg i thinks i prego..o man ..need advice plz?
ok..im 16 years old....and i no that omg ur not posed to have sex until marrige....well i was';in the moment...and I THINK im knocked up...i cant have a baby!!!!my family will beat the **** out of me ....and i cant get a test thingy to see if i am or not....i no that this is bad...but ..i dnt want this kid..ok...im like 50% sure i am pregnant..just look at me ..im kinda huge ...omg im freaking out idk wat to do i need help!!!and fyi...i am on birth control..its an implant...okOmg i thinks i prego..o man ..need advice plz?
... Get married to the guy if your supposed to!Omg i thinks i prego..o man ..need advice plz?
Since you're 16 it is legal to have sex. You could go to the local pharmacist and get a pregnancy test. They're not hard to use. With and implant in it shouldn't be too likely to get pregnant. I know one of my friends always freaks out that she's pregnant. But she hasn't gotten knocked up yet.
I hope this has helped.
E-mail me if you need anymore advice.
xoxox
good luck with it all.
your 16 you should not even be doing that. But you should get tested just to see if you are because it isa 50:50 chance and if you don'tt want it then give it up 4 adaption is it your boyfriend or did yu just get caught in 5the moment with some guy?
You need to see a doctor. You need to tell your family and get checked. The worst possible situation is if you bring a child into this world as immature as you are.
Make spaghetti.
... Get married to the guy if your supposed to!Omg i thinks i prego..o man ..need advice plz?
Since you're 16 it is legal to have sex. You could go to the local pharmacist and get a pregnancy test. They're not hard to use. With and implant in it shouldn't be too likely to get pregnant. I know one of my friends always freaks out that she's pregnant. But she hasn't gotten knocked up yet.
I hope this has helped.
E-mail me if you need anymore advice.
xoxox
good luck with it all.
your 16 you should not even be doing that. But you should get tested just to see if you are because it isa 50:50 chance and if you don'tt want it then give it up 4 adaption is it your boyfriend or did yu just get caught in 5the moment with some guy?
You need to see a doctor. You need to tell your family and get checked. The worst possible situation is if you bring a child into this world as immature as you are.
Make spaghetti.
Who will win one & test series in west indies ? [ IND OR WI ] . also advice for man of the series?
As an unbiased observer, on current form Windies will win both the 1 dayers and test series
M.O.M. 1 dayers = Sarwan
M.O.M. Tests = ChanderpaulWho will win one %26amp; test series in west indies ? [ IND OR WI ] . also advice for man of the series?
W.I wins the ODIs while test series drawn.
man of the series; Brian Lara.Who will win one %26amp; test series in west indies ? [ IND OR WI ] . also advice for man of the series?
Sarwan will be the man of the series.
India will win the series
I think India will lose ODIE series and man of the series goes to Sarwan
Test match India will win same lake Pakistan tore.
Pakistan lose ODI series and won Test series
West Indies
Man of the Series : Agarbar (INDIA)
I think India will win the ODI's TESTS in West Indies.India will come back inthe ODI's.
MAN OF THE SERIES { ODI's }- Yuvraj Singh
MAN OF THE SERIES { TESTS } - Rahul Dravid
West indies
Ramnaresh Sarwan
west indies will win one day series and test series.
one day series man of the series sarwan or yuvraj or dravid.
test series man of the series sehwag or dravid or chanderpaul or lara
india...
reason: windies didnt win the last match by a great margin and jus becos 3 indians got run out in the middle order in this match doesnt mean it will happen again..
i think india is a good batting team and is improving in bowling too... my guess is India will win the one dayersbeauty cosmetics
M.O.M. 1 dayers = Sarwan
M.O.M. Tests = ChanderpaulWho will win one %26amp; test series in west indies ? [ IND OR WI ] . also advice for man of the series?
W.I wins the ODIs while test series drawn.
man of the series; Brian Lara.Who will win one %26amp; test series in west indies ? [ IND OR WI ] . also advice for man of the series?
Sarwan will be the man of the series.
India will win the series
I think India will lose ODIE series and man of the series goes to Sarwan
Test match India will win same lake Pakistan tore.
Pakistan lose ODI series and won Test series
West Indies
Man of the Series : Agarbar (INDIA)
I think India will win the ODI's TESTS in West Indies.India will come back inthe ODI's.
MAN OF THE SERIES { ODI's }- Yuvraj Singh
MAN OF THE SERIES { TESTS } - Rahul Dravid
West indies
Ramnaresh Sarwan
west indies will win one day series and test series.
one day series man of the series sarwan or yuvraj or dravid.
test series man of the series sehwag or dravid or chanderpaul or lara
india...
reason: windies didnt win the last match by a great margin and jus becos 3 indians got run out in the middle order in this match doesnt mean it will happen again..
i think india is a good batting team and is improving in bowling too... my guess is India will win the one dayers
What do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?
There is a guy who was after me for the last one month.He told me many times he is in love with me and i fall in love with him too.He is acting funny with me lately,he tells me recently that he is very busy with work and all the crappy stories of him being busy.If he is not interested in me anymore i think it would be more respectable for both of us if he told me Im not interested in you and I would stop calling him.The sad part is that he is not straight forward and he keeps ignoring my calls and says he is loaded with work which I think is bs.I think he is not truthfull because nothing has changed his work and i know that.I love him so much now but i never wanted our relationship to reach to this stage.I thought if me and him never end up together atleast we could be good friends and if what im thinking is true then i think that wont be happening as well because i wouldnt want to be a friend with a jerk.Do you think i should stop calling him? And he told me lately to stop the drama which i don't really understand.Anyways would like to know what is the best advice you could give me regarding the man?
Thanks alotWhat do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?
Definitely don't call him anymore. This shows self respect. Sounds to me like he probably has another lady friend and hasn't told you. If he told you to stop the drama, then he's over it. You can't control the situation, so even if it hurts, show your self respect and let him be. If he does like you in some way, friends or other, you will see him come back around faster if you leave him alone now. Men are like rubber bands, women are like waves. (quote from Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus). When a man separates himself for space issues, the sooner you leave him alone, the sooner he comes back. The further you push him not respecting his quest for space, the longer it takes for him to come back around.What do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?
Stop calling him. He's making it painfully obvious that he doesn't want to pursue anything at this time, so don't keep pushing the issue. He seems like an insincere man, to be telling you he loves you and then suddenly backing off like this. Sounds to me like you might not have been the only girl he was saying all that to.
i think his goal was to get you and once he got you it was no fun it's like he was playing a game and men they like to achieve things and once the schieve thing they move on to the next challange so b4 he moves on i say you beat him to the punch and move on k
It should be clear to you that he's not interested anymore. If he was, he would make time for you. Stop calling him and find someone who actually cares about you and wants to spend time with you. If you don't you'll just be making a fool of yourself.
Hot in a relationship you are doing two things in the relationship. One is you are contributing or contaminating. It sounds to me like there is some contamination going on here from him. Don't settle for anything less that what you are giving.
Try meeting a new guy, then if he acts jealous then you know he still likes you. You don't have to be more than friends with the new guy but if the person you love cares for you it will be enough to make him realise that you feel uncared for.
It's only been a month and you're not even actually together and you're in love with this guy? PLEASE get some counseling. And stop calling him. Just take the hints.
Leave him before he tells u it is over.There are many men better than him.
Sounds like he was leading you on from the start..
Dont waste your time on him!
Men HATE being ignored...it will be hard but you have to do it. You will know after a few days what's going on... If he can't ';man-up'; move on
Stop calling him. Sounds like he's been leading you on.
I don't think that he cares about you, if he did, he would've at least warn you that he'll be busy at work and therefore he would've needed some space from you and he'll make sure you won't think anything negative about him. If he loved you, he wouldn't ignore your call or at least he would've returned your call if he got missed calls from you,he'll put some efforts into it.But that's only IF he loved you and cared about you. I'd say don't waste your time for him
Thanks alotWhat do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?
Definitely don't call him anymore. This shows self respect. Sounds to me like he probably has another lady friend and hasn't told you. If he told you to stop the drama, then he's over it. You can't control the situation, so even if it hurts, show your self respect and let him be. If he does like you in some way, friends or other, you will see him come back around faster if you leave him alone now. Men are like rubber bands, women are like waves. (quote from Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus). When a man separates himself for space issues, the sooner you leave him alone, the sooner he comes back. The further you push him not respecting his quest for space, the longer it takes for him to come back around.What do you think of this man?pls advice urgent?
Stop calling him. He's making it painfully obvious that he doesn't want to pursue anything at this time, so don't keep pushing the issue. He seems like an insincere man, to be telling you he loves you and then suddenly backing off like this. Sounds to me like you might not have been the only girl he was saying all that to.
i think his goal was to get you and once he got you it was no fun it's like he was playing a game and men they like to achieve things and once the schieve thing they move on to the next challange so b4 he moves on i say you beat him to the punch and move on k
It should be clear to you that he's not interested anymore. If he was, he would make time for you. Stop calling him and find someone who actually cares about you and wants to spend time with you. If you don't you'll just be making a fool of yourself.
Hot in a relationship you are doing two things in the relationship. One is you are contributing or contaminating. It sounds to me like there is some contamination going on here from him. Don't settle for anything less that what you are giving.
Try meeting a new guy, then if he acts jealous then you know he still likes you. You don't have to be more than friends with the new guy but if the person you love cares for you it will be enough to make him realise that you feel uncared for.
It's only been a month and you're not even actually together and you're in love with this guy? PLEASE get some counseling. And stop calling him. Just take the hints.
Leave him before he tells u it is over.There are many men better than him.
Sounds like he was leading you on from the start..
Dont waste your time on him!
Men HATE being ignored...it will be hard but you have to do it. You will know after a few days what's going on... If he can't ';man-up'; move on
Stop calling him. Sounds like he's been leading you on.
I don't think that he cares about you, if he did, he would've at least warn you that he'll be busy at work and therefore he would've needed some space from you and he'll make sure you won't think anything negative about him. If he loved you, he wouldn't ignore your call or at least he would've returned your call if he got missed calls from you,he'll put some efforts into it.But that's only IF he loved you and cared about you. I'd say don't waste your time for him
In need of a smart man's advice?
i need to know if this is wrong.. i like this guy a lot and im sure he likes me too.. but i dont think he is right for me so im going to listen to my brain and try to ignore my emotions... but of course its hard to control emotions. we have been flirty friends/classmates for almost a year now. so is it wrong if i continue to show a little interest in this guy by flirting and giving him attention but still leaving him puzzled about if i actually like him more than a friend. i dont want to get rid of him. as much as i want to be with him, i wont. i have a lot of self control. so am i allowed to show some interest as opposed to none. im not showing enough interest to want to be with him. i try to make it as casual as possible. for example, on facebook me, him, and some other classmates are discussing some stuff in a message board. and he randomly asks if any of us want to go on a trip with him next week and i know that question is aimed towards me. so what do i say? i do want to go of course but im not going to. i dont want to ignore the question so can i show some interest by saying ';sounds fun, who all is going';? even though im not going. help please. i dont want to lead him on or hurt him.
p.s. i do have classes with him next semester.In need of a smart man's advice?
That's good that you are going with what you think rather than let your emotions get a hold of you. Not a lot of people can do that.
Anyways, if you do not want him to be any more than a boyfriend, then just treat him like any other friend. Don't flirt constantly with him, that's leading him on just for him to fall on his face. There is no easier way to hurt a guy than by leading them on.
So just talk to him like a friend. Make sure he knows that you just want to be friends. Don't flirt all the time.
Good luck. Hope I helped.
~Nick
p.s. i do have classes with him next semester.In need of a smart man's advice?
That's good that you are going with what you think rather than let your emotions get a hold of you. Not a lot of people can do that.
Anyways, if you do not want him to be any more than a boyfriend, then just treat him like any other friend. Don't flirt constantly with him, that's leading him on just for him to fall on his face. There is no easier way to hurt a guy than by leading them on.
So just talk to him like a friend. Make sure he knows that you just want to be friends. Don't flirt all the time.
Good luck. Hope I helped.
~Nick
CANCER WOMAN...Confused about virgo man!!! (mature advice only lol)?
okay i've been seeing this guy that my friend hooked me up with for a month now.Everything started out soo good. He was taking me out to lunch just about evryday and we would stay together at night.. almost everynight at that.. he would call and text me throughout the day and tell me how much he likes me and wants me to stay with him once he gets this new apartment..well now things are starting to change.he doesnt call or text as much as he used to nor do we stay together anymore like we used to either... so i called him a few times to see why he's been bluffing me like crazy for the last week and a half he just says hes sorry and really acts like he cares a little . but then still continues not to call or anything anymore.. but heres the icing on the cake i seen him thursday night while i was at my friends house and he was on my heels so hard and we ending up staying together that night everything was sweet.. when he dropped me off the next morning he told me he was gonna call me guess what.... HE DIDN'T,, so saturday night rolls around and im out on the town with my homegirls its about 4 am and we pull into this gas station not too far from my house and guess who i see.... ole boy in the car with another byotch.. i cursed him out and then pulled off.. i was soo pissed but most importantly it hurt me deeply cause i fell for him soo quickly and i normally dont do that.. SOMEONE ...ANYONE PLEASE HELP ME ... SHOULD I JUST SAY F*@K HIM OR WHAT IDK... I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!!!!!!!CANCER WOMAN...Confused about virgo man!!! (mature advice only lol)?
idk get a hobbyCANCER WOMAN...Confused about virgo man!!! (mature advice only lol)?
If you really have cancer you don't need a jerk like that around.
Kick him to the curb!
the exact same thing happened to me i am sag. he is virgo. my dear find yourself a decent man. virgo men have a severe fear of commitment. most of them remains bachelors. they will use you for as long as you allow them to. they are very cold. if he calls you tell him you have found someone else and have moved on even if it isnt so, then put his number on the reject list. if you continue to see him he will hurt you continously. good luck.
idk get a hobbyCANCER WOMAN...Confused about virgo man!!! (mature advice only lol)?
If you really have cancer you don't need a jerk like that around.
Kick him to the curb!
the exact same thing happened to me i am sag. he is virgo. my dear find yourself a decent man. virgo men have a severe fear of commitment. most of them remains bachelors. they will use you for as long as you allow them to. they are very cold. if he calls you tell him you have found someone else and have moved on even if it isnt so, then put his number on the reject list. if you continue to see him he will hurt you continously. good luck.
Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
My girlfriend just broke up with me. We both really really like each other but she didn't have enough time to spend with me because of a working 40 hours a week on top of senior year. It's hard for me to let her go because I'm crazy about her but it was her decision and I'm not going to get mad at her about it and ruin what we still have.
But I was talking to my grandpa about it today. He said I should 'still put my bid in'. Meaning if that's the only reason why we broke up and I'm still crazy about her and she still likes me, go for it again and try to win her back. But should I go for this? If I do, how would I do it? How would I convince her?
Thank you so very much.Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
If she was truthful about her reasons for breaking up with you, then yes, there should still be a chance, and I would have to say that her reason is a noble one. I don't know about trying to convince her that she should be with you though. I think it would be enough to maintain a strong enough presence in her life so that she can see that breaking up with you probably wasn't the best decision. Good luck!
Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
What you have going for you is that she is a full time student with a full time job and cant possibly have time for another guy. You can take your grandfather's advice - but remember - she still isnt going to have time for a relationship - so how much time do you really expect to spend with her - and is that enough for you - and is she going to be able to handle all of this without any sleep . . .
I think gramps is right. If you like her this much then go for it. lifes too short as it is. Tell her that you know she doesnt have allot of time right now but you still like her and are willing to wait for her if she will just take you back. This should totally work. But dont say anything that you dont mean. It sounds like you two have something special. I wouldnt let it get go without a fight.
So you dont wanna do anything about it but your grampa tells you to... well um I would...actually i dont know im stumped lol... Dont just let it slide away from you. But dont force it back either...
But I was talking to my grandpa about it today. He said I should 'still put my bid in'. Meaning if that's the only reason why we broke up and I'm still crazy about her and she still likes me, go for it again and try to win her back. But should I go for this? If I do, how would I do it? How would I convince her?
Thank you so very much.Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
If she was truthful about her reasons for breaking up with you, then yes, there should still be a chance, and I would have to say that her reason is a noble one. I don't know about trying to convince her that she should be with you though. I think it would be enough to maintain a strong enough presence in her life so that she can see that breaking up with you probably wasn't the best decision. Good luck!
Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
What you have going for you is that she is a full time student with a full time job and cant possibly have time for another guy. You can take your grandfather's advice - but remember - she still isnt going to have time for a relationship - so how much time do you really expect to spend with her - and is that enough for you - and is she going to be able to handle all of this without any sleep . . .
I think gramps is right. If you like her this much then go for it. lifes too short as it is. Tell her that you know she doesnt have allot of time right now but you still like her and are willing to wait for her if she will just take you back. This should totally work. But dont say anything that you dont mean. It sounds like you two have something special. I wouldnt let it get go without a fight.
So you dont wanna do anything about it but your grampa tells you to... well um I would...actually i dont know im stumped lol... Dont just let it slide away from you. But dont force it back either...
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