In need of a smart man's advice?

i need to know if this is wrong.. i like this guy a lot and im sure he likes me too.. but i dont think he is right for me so im going to listen to my brain and try to ignore my emotions... but of course its hard to control emotions. we have been flirty friends/classmates for almost a year now. so is it wrong if i continue to show a little interest in this guy by flirting and giving him attention but still leaving him puzzled about if i actually like him more than a friend. i dont want to get rid of him. as much as i want to be with him, i wont. i have a lot of self control. so am i allowed to show some interest as opposed to none. im not showing enough interest to want to be with him. i try to make it as casual as possible. for example, on facebook me, him, and some other classmates are discussing some stuff in a message board. and he randomly asks if any of us want to go on a trip with him next week and i know that question is aimed towards me. so what do i say? i do want to go of course but im not going to. i dont want to ignore the question so can i show some interest by saying ';sounds fun, who all is going';? even though im not going. help please. i dont want to lead him on or hurt him.


p.s. i do have classes with him next semester.In need of a smart man's advice?
That's good that you are going with what you think rather than let your emotions get a hold of you. Not a lot of people can do that.





Anyways, if you do not want him to be any more than a boyfriend, then just treat him like any other friend. Don't flirt constantly with him, that's leading him on just for him to fall on his face. There is no easier way to hurt a guy than by leading them on.





So just talk to him like a friend. Make sure he knows that you just want to be friends. Don't flirt all the time.





Good luck. Hope I helped.


~Nick