okay i've been seeing this guy that my friend hooked me up with for a month now.Everything started out soo good. He was taking me out to lunch just about evryday and we would stay together at night.. almost everynight at that.. he would call and text me throughout the day and tell me how much he likes me and wants me to stay with him once he gets this new apartment..well now things are starting to change.he doesnt call or text as much as he used to nor do we stay together anymore like we used to either... so i called him a few times to see why he's been bluffing me like crazy for the last week and a half he just says hes sorry and really acts like he cares a little . but then still continues not to call or anything anymore.. but heres the icing on the cake i seen him thursday night while i was at my friends house and he was on my heels so hard and we ending up staying together that night everything was sweet.. when he dropped me off the next morning he told me he was gonna call me guess what.... HE DIDN'T,, so saturday night rolls around and im out on the town with my homegirls its about 4 am and we pull into this gas station not too far from my house and guess who i see.... ole boy in the car with another byotch.. i cursed him out and then pulled off.. i was soo pissed but most importantly it hurt me deeply cause i fell for him soo quickly and i normally dont do that.. SOMEONE ...ANYONE PLEASE HELP ME ... SHOULD I JUST SAY F*@K HIM OR WHAT IDK... I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!!!!!!!CANCER WOMAN...Confused about virgo man!!! (mature advice only lol)?
idk get a hobbyCANCER WOMAN...Confused about virgo man!!! (mature advice only lol)?
If you really have cancer you don't need a jerk like that around.
Kick him to the curb!
the exact same thing happened to me i am sag. he is virgo. my dear find yourself a decent man. virgo men have a severe fear of commitment. most of them remains bachelors. they will use you for as long as you allow them to. they are very cold. if he calls you tell him you have found someone else and have moved on even if it isnt so, then put his number on the reject list. if you continue to see him he will hurt you continously. good luck.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
My girlfriend just broke up with me. We both really really like each other but she didn't have enough time to spend with me because of a working 40 hours a week on top of senior year. It's hard for me to let her go because I'm crazy about her but it was her decision and I'm not going to get mad at her about it and ruin what we still have.
But I was talking to my grandpa about it today. He said I should 'still put my bid in'. Meaning if that's the only reason why we broke up and I'm still crazy about her and she still likes me, go for it again and try to win her back. But should I go for this? If I do, how would I do it? How would I convince her?
Thank you so very much.Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
If she was truthful about her reasons for breaking up with you, then yes, there should still be a chance, and I would have to say that her reason is a noble one. I don't know about trying to convince her that she should be with you though. I think it would be enough to maintain a strong enough presence in her life so that she can see that breaking up with you probably wasn't the best decision. Good luck!
Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
What you have going for you is that she is a full time student with a full time job and cant possibly have time for another guy. You can take your grandfather's advice - but remember - she still isnt going to have time for a relationship - so how much time do you really expect to spend with her - and is that enough for you - and is she going to be able to handle all of this without any sleep . . .
I think gramps is right. If you like her this much then go for it. lifes too short as it is. Tell her that you know she doesnt have allot of time right now but you still like her and are willing to wait for her if she will just take you back. This should totally work. But dont say anything that you dont mean. It sounds like you two have something special. I wouldnt let it get go without a fight.
So you dont wanna do anything about it but your grampa tells you to... well um I would...actually i dont know im stumped lol... Dont just let it slide away from you. But dont force it back either...
But I was talking to my grandpa about it today. He said I should 'still put my bid in'. Meaning if that's the only reason why we broke up and I'm still crazy about her and she still likes me, go for it again and try to win her back. But should I go for this? If I do, how would I do it? How would I convince her?
Thank you so very much.Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
If she was truthful about her reasons for breaking up with you, then yes, there should still be a chance, and I would have to say that her reason is a noble one. I don't know about trying to convince her that she should be with you though. I think it would be enough to maintain a strong enough presence in her life so that she can see that breaking up with you probably wasn't the best decision. Good luck!
Should I take the old man's advice? Or move on?
What you have going for you is that she is a full time student with a full time job and cant possibly have time for another guy. You can take your grandfather's advice - but remember - she still isnt going to have time for a relationship - so how much time do you really expect to spend with her - and is that enough for you - and is she going to be able to handle all of this without any sleep . . .
I think gramps is right. If you like her this much then go for it. lifes too short as it is. Tell her that you know she doesnt have allot of time right now but you still like her and are willing to wait for her if she will just take you back. This should totally work. But dont say anything that you dont mean. It sounds like you two have something special. I wouldnt let it get go without a fight.
So you dont wanna do anything about it but your grampa tells you to... well um I would...actually i dont know im stumped lol... Dont just let it slide away from you. But dont force it back either...
In love with a dieing man... need advice plz?
My story begins almost 3 months ago when i met a man online who i was convinced was my soul mate. We shared the same interests, the attraction we had towards each other was too strong to ignore and we acted on them.later on i felt he was pushing me away,so i did go away only to find him again and then we hit it off immediately. we took it to the next level we wud spend hrs just talking.We discussed a lot of future plans that now haunt me and hurt so much, he told me he loved me and promised to never leave me..time passed by and i felt i was in heaven, it was then when he told me that he will have to break his promise.. and that he is suffering from a brain tumor.. he told me to leave him coz he doesnt want to c me get hurt, we cried all nite over the fon and i told him i wanted to b with him but he refused. I do respect his wishes but i needed some advice if anyone has gone thru the same situation.. i am really torn and confused, i cant sleep or eat or do anything but think of him :(In love with a dieing man... need advice plz?
awww i'm so sorry....
It's like that age old question... Is it better to of loved and lost then never to of loved at all....
What you do is up to you but you bascially have two options...
You could cut ties off with him completely... it may save yourself heartache, but is it fair on him...?
You could just be there for him... if you really love him then surely you would want to spend all the thim you have left together...
I'm so sorry and i hope things work out for you...
awww i'm so sorry....
It's like that age old question... Is it better to of loved and lost then never to of loved at all....
What you do is up to you but you bascially have two options...
You could cut ties off with him completely... it may save yourself heartache, but is it fair on him...?
You could just be there for him... if you really love him then surely you would want to spend all the thim you have left together...
I'm so sorry and i hope things work out for you...
Ladies PLEASE HELP MILTARY MAN NEEDS ADVICE?
Alright here it goes: I am currently serveing on my second tour in Iraq. And I am married. I love my wife. But for lack of better words, she's self absorbed. Her sister is staying with her while I'm gone and while I've been away, they went got dressed up, put on make up and low cut tops and went out to a bar till 3am. I told her I didn't like it. (in the nicest way possible) while still coming across pretty clear. Well a month goes by and she's done it again. Only this time she doesn't tell me about it. I've caught her lying about how much money she's spending while I'm gone (although I haven't let her know), she promised to send me a letter a week while I'm gone (I've gotten 1 in the five months I've been gone so far) she doesn't e-mail me, she'll pick up the phone when I call. But she just acts like everything is hunk dory. I'm aat a loss as to how to react. I want to react, but I know if I just get pissed off she will feel attacked and just stop listening. And probably do it again. I've tried telling her how I feel about it. But that didn't even phaze her. What do I do? From 12,000 miles away?Ladies PLEASE HELP MILTARY MAN NEEDS ADVICE?
Being a military wife, I've seen this stuff happen plenty of times. A wife should be somebody you are able to trust, not someone who lies to you about what they are doing, how much money they are spending, etc. As your wife, she should be doing things like writing you letters, and if she has only written you one in five months then there is something wrong. Honestly from what I've seen of military wives, the ones that go out and get all dressed up are usually the ones that cheat on their husbands. Don't get me wrong, there are some who don't, but most of the time if they are wearing low cut shirts getting all dressed up, and going out with another girl, that's usually the case. It's fine if she goes out once every couple of months just to loosen up, but she should be wearing jeans and a T-shirt, not a low cut shirt.
This is what you need to do. Tell your wife that you are in a very uncomfortable position. Tell her that it's hurting you a lot. Be upfront and honest with her. Give her an ultimatum. Tell her that if she keeps things going like this, you won't be able to trust her anymore. With out trust, you won't be able to be married to her. Also bring up the money issue. Tell her that you are concerned, as would any husband be. Be calm about everything and don't yell. Just make sure she knows how serious about it you are and then maybe she'll straighten up her act.
Being a wife to somebody in the military is hard at times, so you have to remember that. But what you need to remember most is that she should be supporting you as much as she possibly can. She shouldn't be doing things all the time that are making you upset and stressed out while you are in iraq. That's very self centered and she is not thinking in your best interest at all. In my opinion tell her to be honest and to stop doing what she's doing or you'll leave her. A wife should be somebody who cares what you have to say, not somebody who blows off everything you are saying like it's not a big deal when it really is to you.
Think about yourself and what you really deserve. Good luck with everything, don't let her walk all over you.Ladies PLEASE HELP MILTARY MAN NEEDS ADVICE?
Thank you for serving our country!
Put only what she needs to get by in the joint account. Put the rest in a savings account she doesn't have access to. Suggest she get a part-time job to pay for her extras.
You guys need to have a serious talk, but it probably wont do any good until you get home.
It makes me so mad to hear stuff like that women that have good men and do them wrong. Honistly you deserve better you should leave her if she cannot respect you. ALL kinds of ppl go to the bar i dont htink that is somewhere where you should go if you are married sorry
Well...she sure shows her TRUE colors. You have a right to get mad~!
She is out messing around on you. Its plain as day.
Pull the money from her. She is a dog to do this to you while you are serving our country.
I am proud of you honey. I am sorry.
Big hugs
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It brakes my heart to read this. Shame on her, here you are, in Iraq and I'm sure you are scared, lonely, home sick and she dose not care. I would leave her ***.
To quote Tom Arnolds character in the movie True Lies...
';What did you expect? She's a flesh and blood woman and you're never there.';
tell her the future will be affected if she spends too much and please be careful....she is bored....reassure her you love her as much as possible...
:)
i would like to first say.....thankyou ...........thankyou for serving our country. i am an ex-military dependant. my ex cheated on me all the time..............this is neiter here or there...........your situation seems diff. When a woman dresses up and does not act out the part from her heart as being your significant other...............she is up to something. it was hard for me to see my man go for so long. He too, went to saudi and i was raising our 2 dds basically alone. i was tempted to do the same as your wife, the lonliness and fear gets deep. this is NOT your fault, she made a choice in being your wife and your job is to serve and to protect. since , i do not know your ages it makes it hard to give a precise answer to your problem...........a woman under 30 usually does not know what she wants or what she has until it is too late. you seem sincer and are really worried about your relationship. if she is making bad decisions and leading you on.............than let her go. there are woman(such as me) that respect and love a man that is willing to go beyond measures to serve both land and family. If she cannot honor your feelings as a active partner.......soul mate than let her go. ........you deserve to recieve letters and support. i used to belong to the Hearts-apart-program ..........you are not alone in this.....many men and woman while away from the home front have lost what they thought they had. Love is out there.........good luck.....be safe ...........our country needs you........shelly
First off I want to thank you for your time spent serving our country.
Now, as for the wife, sometimes military wives get a bit crazy when the husband is gone to help numb the pain of their absence, but there are others that do it simply because they cannot be faithful and use the husbands absence as an excuse to do what they would do anyway.
Being that you are so far from her, you are going to worry more than usual, but then again, if you asked her nicely not to do this and she still does, I would say she doesn't respect you in the slightest, which is sad. My husband served in the Navy and was gone a lot and believe me, it would have been easy to do what your wife is doing, but I didn't out of love and respect for my husband.
My suggestion would be to seriously wait until you are back home and can sit and talk with her face to face and possibly even get some counceling. You could ask the ombudsman to help get you two through this while you are gone.
I really hope all works out with you. I hate seeing a man putting his life on the line for his country while his wife is out ';painting the town';. Good luck to you in the future. :)
hey bro im not a female but i feel your pain you have to get a separate account and only shoot her what is needed to live light lights water and food if you are out here fighting and in the suck and she thinks that she can get a free pass off you then you have to let her know that its not all good. if you don't check her she will feel that it is ok for her to do as she pleases. and if you don't have kids then there is no reason for her sister to be there cause right now you are serving as a cash cow and they balling at your expense. im sure you love your old lady so i wont say anything foul or tell you to dx her. but on the real don't let her make you out to be her b%%ch while you are out here defending the free world. don't kill her but show her 1000000 miles.away that you are still man of the house. just think about it as a soldier if you cut of the enemies supply they fail. so if you cut off her dough supply then she will either humble up or leave you and then that's when you see what your marriage is really worth. hate to hear this happening to you but you are a soldier ruck up you will be aight bro.
She is lonely too. How she is handling may not be the way you want her to, but there is not much you can do about it.
The bigger problem seems to be that she does not even contact you. I would be concerned that she is not in love with you. Why don't you talk to your Chaplain there, and have him contact your wife. Perhaps he can get clarity out of the situation. that is how my sister and her husband handled it when he was stationed in Spain.beauty cosmetics
Being a military wife, I've seen this stuff happen plenty of times. A wife should be somebody you are able to trust, not someone who lies to you about what they are doing, how much money they are spending, etc. As your wife, she should be doing things like writing you letters, and if she has only written you one in five months then there is something wrong. Honestly from what I've seen of military wives, the ones that go out and get all dressed up are usually the ones that cheat on their husbands. Don't get me wrong, there are some who don't, but most of the time if they are wearing low cut shirts getting all dressed up, and going out with another girl, that's usually the case. It's fine if she goes out once every couple of months just to loosen up, but she should be wearing jeans and a T-shirt, not a low cut shirt.
This is what you need to do. Tell your wife that you are in a very uncomfortable position. Tell her that it's hurting you a lot. Be upfront and honest with her. Give her an ultimatum. Tell her that if she keeps things going like this, you won't be able to trust her anymore. With out trust, you won't be able to be married to her. Also bring up the money issue. Tell her that you are concerned, as would any husband be. Be calm about everything and don't yell. Just make sure she knows how serious about it you are and then maybe she'll straighten up her act.
Being a wife to somebody in the military is hard at times, so you have to remember that. But what you need to remember most is that she should be supporting you as much as she possibly can. She shouldn't be doing things all the time that are making you upset and stressed out while you are in iraq. That's very self centered and she is not thinking in your best interest at all. In my opinion tell her to be honest and to stop doing what she's doing or you'll leave her. A wife should be somebody who cares what you have to say, not somebody who blows off everything you are saying like it's not a big deal when it really is to you.
Think about yourself and what you really deserve. Good luck with everything, don't let her walk all over you.Ladies PLEASE HELP MILTARY MAN NEEDS ADVICE?
Thank you for serving our country!
Put only what she needs to get by in the joint account. Put the rest in a savings account she doesn't have access to. Suggest she get a part-time job to pay for her extras.
You guys need to have a serious talk, but it probably wont do any good until you get home.
It makes me so mad to hear stuff like that women that have good men and do them wrong. Honistly you deserve better you should leave her if she cannot respect you. ALL kinds of ppl go to the bar i dont htink that is somewhere where you should go if you are married sorry
Well...she sure shows her TRUE colors. You have a right to get mad~!
She is out messing around on you. Its plain as day.
Pull the money from her. She is a dog to do this to you while you are serving our country.
I am proud of you honey. I am sorry.
Big hugs
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It brakes my heart to read this. Shame on her, here you are, in Iraq and I'm sure you are scared, lonely, home sick and she dose not care. I would leave her ***.
To quote Tom Arnolds character in the movie True Lies...
';What did you expect? She's a flesh and blood woman and you're never there.';
tell her the future will be affected if she spends too much and please be careful....she is bored....reassure her you love her as much as possible...
:)
i would like to first say.....thankyou ...........thankyou for serving our country. i am an ex-military dependant. my ex cheated on me all the time..............this is neiter here or there...........your situation seems diff. When a woman dresses up and does not act out the part from her heart as being your significant other...............she is up to something. it was hard for me to see my man go for so long. He too, went to saudi and i was raising our 2 dds basically alone. i was tempted to do the same as your wife, the lonliness and fear gets deep. this is NOT your fault, she made a choice in being your wife and your job is to serve and to protect. since , i do not know your ages it makes it hard to give a precise answer to your problem...........a woman under 30 usually does not know what she wants or what she has until it is too late. you seem sincer and are really worried about your relationship. if she is making bad decisions and leading you on.............than let her go. there are woman(such as me) that respect and love a man that is willing to go beyond measures to serve both land and family. If she cannot honor your feelings as a active partner.......soul mate than let her go. ........you deserve to recieve letters and support. i used to belong to the Hearts-apart-program ..........you are not alone in this.....many men and woman while away from the home front have lost what they thought they had. Love is out there.........good luck.....be safe ...........our country needs you........shelly
First off I want to thank you for your time spent serving our country.
Now, as for the wife, sometimes military wives get a bit crazy when the husband is gone to help numb the pain of their absence, but there are others that do it simply because they cannot be faithful and use the husbands absence as an excuse to do what they would do anyway.
Being that you are so far from her, you are going to worry more than usual, but then again, if you asked her nicely not to do this and she still does, I would say she doesn't respect you in the slightest, which is sad. My husband served in the Navy and was gone a lot and believe me, it would have been easy to do what your wife is doing, but I didn't out of love and respect for my husband.
My suggestion would be to seriously wait until you are back home and can sit and talk with her face to face and possibly even get some counceling. You could ask the ombudsman to help get you two through this while you are gone.
I really hope all works out with you. I hate seeing a man putting his life on the line for his country while his wife is out ';painting the town';. Good luck to you in the future. :)
hey bro im not a female but i feel your pain you have to get a separate account and only shoot her what is needed to live light lights water and food if you are out here fighting and in the suck and she thinks that she can get a free pass off you then you have to let her know that its not all good. if you don't check her she will feel that it is ok for her to do as she pleases. and if you don't have kids then there is no reason for her sister to be there cause right now you are serving as a cash cow and they balling at your expense. im sure you love your old lady so i wont say anything foul or tell you to dx her. but on the real don't let her make you out to be her b%%ch while you are out here defending the free world. don't kill her but show her 1000000 miles.away that you are still man of the house. just think about it as a soldier if you cut of the enemies supply they fail. so if you cut off her dough supply then she will either humble up or leave you and then that's when you see what your marriage is really worth. hate to hear this happening to you but you are a soldier ruck up you will be aight bro.
She is lonely too. How she is handling may not be the way you want her to, but there is not much you can do about it.
The bigger problem seems to be that she does not even contact you. I would be concerned that she is not in love with you. Why don't you talk to your Chaplain there, and have him contact your wife. Perhaps he can get clarity out of the situation. that is how my sister and her husband handled it when he was stationed in Spain.
Man and Woman friendship advice, why is she always pissed?
Hi, ive been good friends with this girl for a few years now, prob best friends. In the past she would get pissed over something trivial and would be upset for weeks/months. She would ignore every attempt to contact her, then would jsut show back up one day like nothing happened. Being a very forgiving perosn i live and let live and drop it.
Fast forward to a few weeks ago, after awhile of everything being cool, im back on ignore for doing something without her while she was away for weekend. Ive never had these kind of things happen with my male friends. Dont want this to sound bad, but is this typical behavior for women in friendships? It makes me feel like dirt, I want everything to be cool, but quite frankly im tired of being treated like trash she can bend over and pick out the can every few weeks.
How do I proceed form here, im very stressed right now and not sure how to proceed, i want to work things out but I cant get thru. Am i fighting a losing battle and just hurtn myself?Man and Woman friendship advice, why is she always pissed?
Maybe she wants to be more than friends and the only emotion she finds acceptable to express to you is anger, because she is unsure how you would react to her telling you that she has other feelings for you. Try asking her why she gets so angry with you......Man and Woman friendship advice, why is she always pissed?
ok as a girl %26amp;%26amp; havin a lot of guys for friends...infact more then girls...its not always like that...she probably kinda likes you more then a friend %26amp;%26amp; she thinks that as you goin out with other girls maybe if that is the case that she will lose you...so i guess just like talk to her bout it when shes ready to talk to you %26amp;%26amp; tell her how you feel...
not to be mean but she sounds a lil bitchy...most girls from what i see arent like this at all...hope that helps
to the last two questions-- yes and yes. a true friend wouldn't be so fickle. no all girls aren't like that. i certainly don't treat my guy friends that way. sure many women are emotional and moody, but we shouldn't use ';being a woman'; as an excuse for rude, selfish behavior. step back and think: why do you want to work things out and be her friend? you need to find some other girl friends...
Congratulations on your wedding. Too bad you seemed to have missed it.
waste of time. dont bother. she will **** you over in the end. happend to me. numerous of times.
Your happiness is what matters.... If you are no longer happy with the way this relationship is going then I would end it... Do what feels right to you.....
Are you sure she likes you as just a friend? I wouldnt be too sure. Find out. If its just friendship and nothing more, then here is something you should know about female pals: They can be catty like that.
Your female friend is immature. As she won't talk to you, don't even make the attempt. When she calls next time, just let her know that her behavior really stresses you out and that this type of friendship is not one that your mental health can tolerate. Then, hang up the phone and move on with your life.
She is used to getting her way and uses these ';ignore'; times to manipulate you in doing what she wants. Do you respect yourself enough to let this friendship go? I hope so.
Fast forward to a few weeks ago, after awhile of everything being cool, im back on ignore for doing something without her while she was away for weekend. Ive never had these kind of things happen with my male friends. Dont want this to sound bad, but is this typical behavior for women in friendships? It makes me feel like dirt, I want everything to be cool, but quite frankly im tired of being treated like trash she can bend over and pick out the can every few weeks.
How do I proceed form here, im very stressed right now and not sure how to proceed, i want to work things out but I cant get thru. Am i fighting a losing battle and just hurtn myself?Man and Woman friendship advice, why is she always pissed?
Maybe she wants to be more than friends and the only emotion she finds acceptable to express to you is anger, because she is unsure how you would react to her telling you that she has other feelings for you. Try asking her why she gets so angry with you......Man and Woman friendship advice, why is she always pissed?
ok as a girl %26amp;%26amp; havin a lot of guys for friends...infact more then girls...its not always like that...she probably kinda likes you more then a friend %26amp;%26amp; she thinks that as you goin out with other girls maybe if that is the case that she will lose you...so i guess just like talk to her bout it when shes ready to talk to you %26amp;%26amp; tell her how you feel...
not to be mean but she sounds a lil bitchy...most girls from what i see arent like this at all...hope that helps
to the last two questions-- yes and yes. a true friend wouldn't be so fickle. no all girls aren't like that. i certainly don't treat my guy friends that way. sure many women are emotional and moody, but we shouldn't use ';being a woman'; as an excuse for rude, selfish behavior. step back and think: why do you want to work things out and be her friend? you need to find some other girl friends...
Congratulations on your wedding. Too bad you seemed to have missed it.
waste of time. dont bother. she will **** you over in the end. happend to me. numerous of times.
Your happiness is what matters.... If you are no longer happy with the way this relationship is going then I would end it... Do what feels right to you.....
Are you sure she likes you as just a friend? I wouldnt be too sure. Find out. If its just friendship and nothing more, then here is something you should know about female pals: They can be catty like that.
Your female friend is immature. As she won't talk to you, don't even make the attempt. When she calls next time, just let her know that her behavior really stresses you out and that this type of friendship is not one that your mental health can tolerate. Then, hang up the phone and move on with your life.
She is used to getting her way and uses these ';ignore'; times to manipulate you in doing what she wants. Do you respect yourself enough to let this friendship go? I hope so.
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well then, for a guy's room i'd go with the second one. but also before spending money here, why not check out some of your local thrift stores, they may well have something you cant find anywhere else for your room, and a clock you'd enjoy.Clock Tips? Kind man please give ur advice!?
First of all, do you want it on the wall or the bedside table. What color is your room and your furniture? If I were purchasing a clock for my wall it would be big enough to see from your bed and the door and the alarm clock would have to be big enough to see from both sides of the bed.I need to know the colors of your walls and your bedroom ensemble to tell you the color but thats whats all I got w/o the rest of the story....sorry but maybe I've helped somewhat....have a good one, okay
I hope you know these things are tiny. You would need several of them to make any kind of decorating statement.
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golden is my favourite color鈥?.....Clock Tips? Kind man please give ur advice!?
well then, for a guy's room i'd go with the second one. but also before spending money here, why not check out some of your local thrift stores, they may well have something you cant find anywhere else for your room, and a clock you'd enjoy.Clock Tips? Kind man please give ur advice!?
First of all, do you want it on the wall or the bedside table. What color is your room and your furniture? If I were purchasing a clock for my wall it would be big enough to see from your bed and the door and the alarm clock would have to be big enough to see from both sides of the bed.I need to know the colors of your walls and your bedroom ensemble to tell you the color but thats whats all I got w/o the rest of the story....sorry but maybe I've helped somewhat....have a good one, okay
I hope you know these things are tiny. You would need several of them to make any kind of decorating statement.
I'm so inhibited during sex with my man. I need advice from experienced male and females! Than?
First off he's 25 and I'm 23. So we're adults!
We've been together for 2 years. But I'm still so inhibited and lack confidence in the bedroom. I'm driving myself crazy! I keep thinking he may laugh or not like things I may try. (He doesn't give me that idea though, i give it to my self... :( ) So because of this he always takes control and I never do. He wants me to be more assertive and spontaneous. I never even initiate it. But now I feel like I'm ready to let go of all my inhibitions and take charge!!! LOL... easier said than done though. Also to make it worse he is HORRIBLE at foreplay!!! He just jumps right in and doesnt take his time. I want to show him how to do foreplay and slow him down!!
Please ladies and gents could you please offer advice on techniques, tricks, and ways to do foreplay on a guy!!??? Guys what type of foreplay do you like? (I'll tell him what I like). Also any ideas on planning a nice evening for him?? I want to plan a romantic evening and surprise him when I take control!
Please be as detailed as possible. Feel free to email me if you prefer that or I can email you. I need mature, helpful answers! Please this is very important to me! Thanks in advance! Muah! :)I'm so inhibited during sex with my man. I need advice from experienced male and females! Than?
Tell him you want to teach him about foreplay... this would be a good way to start to take charge. When you're teaching him you'll be the one in control, you can start to see what it would be like to be controlling the actual sex as well.
Guys actually like foreplay (for the most part)... it's just that they like the actual sex better, so they skip directly to it if possible.
Tell him what you like and get him to do it, as long as you're both doing sexual stuff of some kind he'll enjoy it. Tell him how good it feels (or whatever) when he's doing it right.
As for what to do to him... just ask him I suppose...
We've been together for 2 years. But I'm still so inhibited and lack confidence in the bedroom. I'm driving myself crazy! I keep thinking he may laugh or not like things I may try. (He doesn't give me that idea though, i give it to my self... :( ) So because of this he always takes control and I never do. He wants me to be more assertive and spontaneous. I never even initiate it. But now I feel like I'm ready to let go of all my inhibitions and take charge!!! LOL... easier said than done though. Also to make it worse he is HORRIBLE at foreplay!!! He just jumps right in and doesnt take his time. I want to show him how to do foreplay and slow him down!!
Please ladies and gents could you please offer advice on techniques, tricks, and ways to do foreplay on a guy!!??? Guys what type of foreplay do you like? (I'll tell him what I like). Also any ideas on planning a nice evening for him?? I want to plan a romantic evening and surprise him when I take control!
Please be as detailed as possible. Feel free to email me if you prefer that or I can email you. I need mature, helpful answers! Please this is very important to me! Thanks in advance! Muah! :)I'm so inhibited during sex with my man. I need advice from experienced male and females! Than?
Tell him you want to teach him about foreplay... this would be a good way to start to take charge. When you're teaching him you'll be the one in control, you can start to see what it would be like to be controlling the actual sex as well.
Guys actually like foreplay (for the most part)... it's just that they like the actual sex better, so they skip directly to it if possible.
Tell him what you like and get him to do it, as long as you're both doing sexual stuff of some kind he'll enjoy it. Tell him how good it feels (or whatever) when he's doing it right.
As for what to do to him... just ask him I suppose...
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