I am with a younger guy, and he totally Controls this relationship ! it makes me feel kinda crazy, because I'm the older woman. and he should be chasing after me !
Instead, I'm the one waiting for the phone to ring, and losing sleep. He visits me on his schedule. and basically dictates when we spend time together, and how much time. He controls every aspect of our relationship.
In the beginning of course, he chased after me, and sang to my music, but now tables have turned.
So tell me what I should do..?? I need step by step instructions. should I ignore his calls, start an argument and avoid him for a few days ? what will work ? I dont want to break up, because I love him, but I feel like I'm getting taken for granted.
Please no sarcastic remarks or nasty advice...I'm looking for some realistic answers to the question....thanksHow do I Take Back Control of my Relationship with a younger man.. ?? Adult Advice please?
It's like you walked right into my life. I realized this was going on with my young friend too. So I got him to call me and now I am about to ignore his *** and turn the tables.
I got satisfaction from the fact that he called. I acted all nonchalant.
Now he is going to be like, ';I am loosing my grip and need to start chasing her like crazy'; or ';Here's my chance to bail out of this *****';.
Either way control will be mine again. I only have to remember not to let my life revolve around his again and things will stay cool.How do I Take Back Control of my Relationship with a younger man.. ?? Adult Advice please?
its wrong that he treats you this way but it's also wrong that you think it should be the other way around and that he should be treated that way by you just because your older if you belive that any one party should be in ';controle'; of a relationship then you have major issues that you need to work out befor you get in to one
you already know!
take a step back! don't be so available to him.
don't just want him to chase you make him chase you.
and make sure you look hot when you do it!!!!!!
It may be because he has a more dominant personality, which doesn't have anything to do with the age. It comes from hierarchialogical structure of social groups a scientific direction called ethology deals with that.
Also, it fits classic female-male interest curves. According to that hypothesis males tend to be more interested in the beginning of the relationship, while females interest raises with the time. So it may indicate that his interest is somewhat downward
Realistically, he must be significantly younger for you to mention this. If this is true, then he probably isn't as mature as you. That being said, things are going to be pretty hard.
Tell him you don't feel respected, and that you feel hurt. He probably feels really good about himself right now, because he's with an older woman. Maybe he needs to come back down to earth for a bit.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
A young man got caught cheating on his fiance with another woman.
The woman is possibly pregnant (she won't tell him). She wants to be with him.
His fiance may be pregnant also. She also wants to be with him - and he is truely in love with her.
He wants to stay with his fiance...and work things out...but is now CONFUSED on what he wants to do AND WHO HE WANTS to be with.
I know that he put himself in this situation - the fiance did NOT know about the woman but the woman KNEW about his fiance.
What positive advice would you give to the young man?
I have told him that I would pray about.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
Wow, what a difficult situation. Obviously he was confused to begin with. praying is a good idea, but sometimes the Lord wants us to figure out the right answer then ask for a confirmation of what we have decided.
He needs to think about why he cheated on his love to begin with and what he was hoping to accomplish by doing that.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
to keep his ______ in his pants
He should be with the one that he truly loves.if he is confused then he should take sometime away from both of them to sort out his feelings.he is lucky his fiance still wants him back because i wouldn't.and yes definitely pray.
The woman is possibly pregnant (she won't tell him). She wants to be with him.
His fiance may be pregnant also. She also wants to be with him - and he is truely in love with her.
He wants to stay with his fiance...and work things out...but is now CONFUSED on what he wants to do AND WHO HE WANTS to be with.
I know that he put himself in this situation - the fiance did NOT know about the woman but the woman KNEW about his fiance.
What positive advice would you give to the young man?
I have told him that I would pray about.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
Wow, what a difficult situation. Obviously he was confused to begin with. praying is a good idea, but sometimes the Lord wants us to figure out the right answer then ask for a confirmation of what we have decided.
He needs to think about why he cheated on his love to begin with and what he was hoping to accomplish by doing that.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
to keep his ______ in his pants
He should be with the one that he truly loves.if he is confused then he should take sometime away from both of them to sort out his feelings.he is lucky his fiance still wants him back because i wouldn't.and yes definitely pray.
What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
A young man got caught cheating on his fiance with another woman.
The woman is possibly pregnant (she won't tell him). She wants to be with him.
His fiance may be pregnant also. She also wants to be with him - and he is truely in love with her.
He wants to stay with his fiance...and work things out...but is now CONFUSED on what he wants to do AND WHO HE WANTS to be with.
I know that he put himself in this situation - the fiance did NOT know about the woman but the woman KNEW about his fiance.
What positive advice would you give to the young man?
I have told him that I would pray about.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
Wow, what a difficult situation. Obviously he was confused to begin with. praying is a good idea, but sometimes the Lord wants us to figure out the right answer then ask for a confirmation of what we have decided.
He needs to think about why he cheated on his love to begin with and what he was hoping to accomplish by doing that.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
to keep his ______ in his pants
He should be with the one that he truly loves.if he is confused then he should take sometime away from both of them to sort out his feelings.he is lucky his fiance still wants him back because i wouldn't.and yes definitely pray.dermatologist
The woman is possibly pregnant (she won't tell him). She wants to be with him.
His fiance may be pregnant also. She also wants to be with him - and he is truely in love with her.
He wants to stay with his fiance...and work things out...but is now CONFUSED on what he wants to do AND WHO HE WANTS to be with.
I know that he put himself in this situation - the fiance did NOT know about the woman but the woman KNEW about his fiance.
What positive advice would you give to the young man?
I have told him that I would pray about.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
Wow, what a difficult situation. Obviously he was confused to begin with. praying is a good idea, but sometimes the Lord wants us to figure out the right answer then ask for a confirmation of what we have decided.
He needs to think about why he cheated on his love to begin with and what he was hoping to accomplish by doing that.What kind of positive advice would you give to a young man in this situation?
to keep his ______ in his pants
He should be with the one that he truly loves.if he is confused then he should take sometime away from both of them to sort out his feelings.he is lucky his fiance still wants him back because i wouldn't.and yes definitely pray.
My son is a wimp. How can I make him a real man? Need advice very badly. Please help.?
My son is 18 years old and a serious puss cake. He just sits around all day high out of his mind, raiding my fridge and watching porn (Know it's porn because me and his mother can hear it.) He has zero muscle mass and/hence no girlfriend. To add insult to injury I found out from my daughter that he slept with a prostitute on a road trip to montreal but unfortunately this did not kick start him into gear. I would be shocked if he has ever gotten action he has not paid for. Looking for advice from other dads who have dealt with/ have experience with this type of thing.My son is a wimp. How can I make him a real man? Need advice very badly. Please help.?
Kick him in his nuts as hard as you can. This might make his balls drop. Good Luck!My son is a wimp. How can I make him a real man? Need advice very badly. Please help.?
1)Tell him now that he's 18 He HAS to get a job,and start paying rent, (Decide a reasonable amount maybe 300 a month) for every month that he doesn't have a job you will write down no rent payment .
2. Tell him that there are no drugs allowed in your house if he brings drugs in you will call the police,and have him arrested. (Just because he is your son doesn't mean he should get away with something illegal)
3. Tell him if the two above things aren't met you will sign his *** up for the Marines .
Simple, take his lazy *** down to the Army recruiting station and sign him the hell up. Then drag all of his **** outside and change the locks on the doors. That's what my dad did and I love him for it.
he is what you raised him to be ................
a lazy pot head that doesn't work and doesn't pay rent. did he even pay for his own porn or did you pay for it on your cable? if you heard it why didn't you make him turn it off?
tell him he is a puss cake and to grow up and see what he says. I agree he should join the army. That'll really get to him
Kick him in his nuts as hard as you can. This might make his balls drop. Good Luck!My son is a wimp. How can I make him a real man? Need advice very badly. Please help.?
1)Tell him now that he's 18 He HAS to get a job,and start paying rent, (Decide a reasonable amount maybe 300 a month) for every month that he doesn't have a job you will write down no rent payment .
2. Tell him that there are no drugs allowed in your house if he brings drugs in you will call the police,and have him arrested. (Just because he is your son doesn't mean he should get away with something illegal)
3. Tell him if the two above things aren't met you will sign his *** up for the Marines .
Simple, take his lazy *** down to the Army recruiting station and sign him the hell up. Then drag all of his **** outside and change the locks on the doors. That's what my dad did and I love him for it.
he is what you raised him to be ................
a lazy pot head that doesn't work and doesn't pay rent. did he even pay for his own porn or did you pay for it on your cable? if you heard it why didn't you make him turn it off?
tell him he is a puss cake and to grow up and see what he says. I agree he should join the army. That'll really get to him
Advice for Aries girl wanting a Pisces man.?
My good friend is an Aries and she's dating the notoriously elusive pisces man. I'm a pisces woman, so she asked me. What should I tell this Aries about a Pisces man? Thanks!Advice for Aries girl wanting a Pisces man.?
my horse likes to lick everything.Advice for Aries girl wanting a Pisces man.?
ARIES-PISCES : These are strange bedfellows. They admire, love and sometimes, hate each other. Piscean the dreamer, sees the fulfillment of his/her desires in an Aries-born. Pisces will always try to calm down the fiery temperament of Aries, and will not always succeed. Aries loves the sense of belongings towards a Piscean. Though sometimes Aries could be rough and cruel towards their Piscean mate.
What it's Like to Date a Pisces Man:
Pisces man is is the ultimate romantic, the sensitive man who feels with a woman. Pisces male is the ideal zodiac sign for the woman who complains that men are not sensitive enough, this man is. However, he has such an ideal of romance that is unrealistic and will fall out of love when he realizes that there is no such thing as the perfect woman. This man lives in the world of dreams and he needs a woman to keep him grounded. He always seems to chose the wrong woman, or a woman he can't have like a married woman that way there is no worry about becoming emotionally attached. He needs a woman who can dominate him, but very subtly. She has to be able to help him steer clear of bad habits and bad thoughts. Pisces man needs sensitivity, generosity and compassion, nurture him and he will nurture you back. A fulfilling emotional relationship for the strong yet sensitive woman.
How to Attract Pisces:
talk about spirituality, the occult, astrology, anything that is out of reach of the real world. They will easily get lost in a good conversation. Although they are attracted to people with severe problems who desperately need help, this actually does more harm them good. Even though Pisces will offer to make everything right, do not allow them to take on all your problems because they will lose their identity in your situation. They need a strong positive partner to make them strong. Pisces like adventure, new situation and social events and will be up to doing almost anything that you suggest. Make them laugh, they are usually melancholy and will be impressed if someone has the ability to make them laugh. They are not very conservative people so do not be afraid to talk about unconventional or strange things and tell them odd jokes, they will be impressed by that. They are suckers for flattery give them compliments and tell them in a roundabout way that you admire them. Be sensitive, generous and gentle, make them feel comfortable with you and make them feel good about themselves and all will be smooth sailing!
DK has written a load of rubbish. Pisces men do not conform to stereotypes. There are lots of different characters. Your friend is going to have to find out the human way, by interacting, not by consulting a dead astrologist.
wat they said about how to impress pisces is true . but pisces could loose interest jus as fast as he gains it for any reason.
as a friend they are good cause i have 80% Pisces friends
thats awesome to know im also pisces
thanks for the info guy...and about ur Q
ha-hope 1 of them helped u..lol
my horse likes to lick everything.Advice for Aries girl wanting a Pisces man.?
ARIES-PISCES : These are strange bedfellows. They admire, love and sometimes, hate each other. Piscean the dreamer, sees the fulfillment of his/her desires in an Aries-born. Pisces will always try to calm down the fiery temperament of Aries, and will not always succeed. Aries loves the sense of belongings towards a Piscean. Though sometimes Aries could be rough and cruel towards their Piscean mate.
What it's Like to Date a Pisces Man:
Pisces man is is the ultimate romantic, the sensitive man who feels with a woman. Pisces male is the ideal zodiac sign for the woman who complains that men are not sensitive enough, this man is. However, he has such an ideal of romance that is unrealistic and will fall out of love when he realizes that there is no such thing as the perfect woman. This man lives in the world of dreams and he needs a woman to keep him grounded. He always seems to chose the wrong woman, or a woman he can't have like a married woman that way there is no worry about becoming emotionally attached. He needs a woman who can dominate him, but very subtly. She has to be able to help him steer clear of bad habits and bad thoughts. Pisces man needs sensitivity, generosity and compassion, nurture him and he will nurture you back. A fulfilling emotional relationship for the strong yet sensitive woman.
How to Attract Pisces:
talk about spirituality, the occult, astrology, anything that is out of reach of the real world. They will easily get lost in a good conversation. Although they are attracted to people with severe problems who desperately need help, this actually does more harm them good. Even though Pisces will offer to make everything right, do not allow them to take on all your problems because they will lose their identity in your situation. They need a strong positive partner to make them strong. Pisces like adventure, new situation and social events and will be up to doing almost anything that you suggest. Make them laugh, they are usually melancholy and will be impressed if someone has the ability to make them laugh. They are not very conservative people so do not be afraid to talk about unconventional or strange things and tell them odd jokes, they will be impressed by that. They are suckers for flattery give them compliments and tell them in a roundabout way that you admire them. Be sensitive, generous and gentle, make them feel comfortable with you and make them feel good about themselves and all will be smooth sailing!
DK has written a load of rubbish. Pisces men do not conform to stereotypes. There are lots of different characters. Your friend is going to have to find out the human way, by interacting, not by consulting a dead astrologist.
wat they said about how to impress pisces is true . but pisces could loose interest jus as fast as he gains it for any reason.
as a friend they are good cause i have 80% Pisces friends
thats awesome to know im also pisces
thanks for the info guy...and about ur Q
ha-hope 1 of them helped u..lol
As an older experienced adult what kind of advice would you give a young man in his early 20's?
Start saving $$$ now... it sure adds up fast .As an older experienced adult what kind of advice would you give a young man in his early 20's?
advice for what?????
advice for what?????
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YOU COULD GO TO (YAHOO SEARCH PEOPLE)THAT COULD PROBALY WORK.
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