Can you give advice please, the man in the next?

trailer asked me in for a coffee, we got on like a house on fire.


His wife ran away with his best friend, and it has left him feeling so lonely, he has asked me to move in btw, he has a job.





Should I move in with him, I have had a lot of men but never one that worked, I am over the moon with happiness, maybe I can give up two of my jobs, please advise.Can you give advice please, the man in the next?
BE NICE!!! ... See, if you exagerate the nice side of your personality, good things will happen.


I'm so happy for you but don't embrace false hopes. Hopefully this person will bring out the best in you and a cohesive relationship will evolve naturally..


Too early to move in ... he's just next door so seeing ea. other is no problem ... Take your time.Can you give advice please, the man in the next?
Hey mugs, I'm wondering,,,you say he has a job, that's good, but what condition is the trailer in ?


What about a car '; (If it's on blocks in the front yard, uh, ohh, that's not good)


And does your new ';squeeze'; have ALL of his own teeth ?


(It's ok to be missing three or four, and If they're in a jar, on the nightstand, that's alright too)





These are important questions for you to seriously consider because, if his house and teeth are in good condition then he'll take care of you too. ((no kidding, a proven fact)





So, take the advice from ';Dr. Geezer';, and check these two things out before you get serious.





Let us know how it goes and we're ALL expecting an invite to the wedding !
If you already live next to him, why would you want to move in with him? You can see him whenever you want right now...and you don't have to see him if you don't want to...you'll lose that 'luxury' if you move in with him. If it's just so you can give up your jobs...you've already started the relationship out on shaky ground.
No you should not. Why did his wife leave him? Have you known him for a good while? You don't move in just because he is lonely or because you got on like a house on fire! The house could burn out from under you. Rethink this over. Some mistakes are hard to erase. Remember the old saying, 'look before you leap', his wife might come back. Poppy
Time is on your side. give this time . Is he divorced? Who owns the trailer? How's his credit? Is he behind on bill? I am happy for you, that you have found happiness. We all need that. But when the fire goes out. You could crash and burn. Give this a few months first, is my advice. Good luck honey.
I hope you are happy but think long %26amp; hard before you jump over the fence, that can be a big messy step or can be a state of bliss! I'm sure you already have a path from your door to his, zip back %26amp; forth while you figure this out. Why did his wife take off, according to him?


Is he going to support you? Who controls the remote control? Is he a neatnick or slob? Aren't you going to miss your solitude??





Good Luck!


BTW: House on fire doesn't last long, you're then left with ashes.
Darlin, why don't you wait for someone who can take you out of that trailer park? I think that a change of scene is called for. Good luck--
Oh what about poor Benny, you have raised him since he was a child, and you have all those cats to think of,, oh well let the cow jump over the moon
Just on a personal note. I would never give up my independence for a Married Man. Wifey left for a reason. I've heard it said that ';There's his side, Her side, and the Truth';. Step softly my friend.
Don't do it. As soon as you move in he'll have to quit his job...you are far too good of a caregiver, from what I've read! Good luck %26amp; take it slow this time around!
No-one here could possibly know. Listen to your heart, but tread carefully and slowly.
I assume you are aware of the reason his wife did a runner.
Give it time. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. You will know more if you wait a bit.

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What advice would you give a man in a femdom relationship?

Ask your Dom for her advice... not someone here what if their advice makes her unhappy...hmmm maybe you are wanting punishment.... (I know I'm not suppose to use this as a personal forum but, nice play on names there...I'm refering to you handle)What advice would you give a man in a femdom relationship?
Ask her to please not wear spiked heels.What advice would you give a man in a femdom relationship?
lick her boots dumass
Get out. That's just not normal no matter what anyone says. I know we all have our own idea of what is normal and what isn't but this is the exception to the rule.
kick butt!!!
i ask do u like what is happening with u
stay away...especially you

Kind Of Personal... But Still Need advice! (MANS POINT OF VIEW IS NEEDED PLEASE)?

Okay So like me and my hubby used to have sex on a regular bases and now I'm lucky if I get it one a week.... I know it sounds bad but I am very sexually (and emotionally of course) Attracted to my baby! What Should I do? Could he be becoming Unattracted to me? I mean he been stressed out but I didn't think that would change... What should I Do?Kind Of Personal... But Still Need advice! (MANS POINT OF VIEW IS NEEDED PLEASE)?
i ask my man and he thinks that u should not worry too much because if the guy is not cheating on you he must feel really stressed about something and he can't get that out of his head until it gets resolved. and you should try to put something sexy on once a week. until he get all the stress out you will probably get it more often. and my point of view is try to not pay any attention to him at all and let him come to you. i been thru this and it work out for me. good luckKind Of Personal... But Still Need advice! (MANS POINT OF VIEW IS NEEDED PLEASE)?
you justed answered your own question, ';he may be stressed out';. alot of times, being stressed out can make a difference in the male hormones. try to ease his mind by trying different things sexually....positions that will make him go WOW.


dress up for him, meaning, get that sexy lingerie you saw at Victoria's Secret store. give him a sensual massage and make him relax. use different things..toys, lotions and even roleplay may set that spark to sparkle again. never know, but to try some things. good luck
Men don't' like to feel as though they have to do it. Just relax and stop thinking about it, usually they will ask for it when they are ready. Also, try doing something different, wear a skimpy nightie or maybe even have a three-some (if you can handle one) they are DEF no boring.
sounds like you need to spice it up a bit. talk to him, its a touchy subject but worth it. go on a weekend trip somewhere and give him something new to get him going again. just use your imagination if you know what i mean. i am a man and we do enjoy it.
Maybe it's getting a little boring. Try doing something new and different to both of you.








If he is unattracted there should be other clues other than sex. Ex. Doesn't go out as much as before. something like that.
Relax the man.... relax your self. Relax together.
aren't you beautiful !!
He's probably cheating on you, sorry to say.

I hate trying to be intimate when the man goes too soon.advice?

its not like it happens all the time,but I hate making love with my fiance because sometimes he goes too soon and I dont get any pleasure.I love him,im horny and I like being intinate with him but its fustraiting when he goes in like 2 minutes or less!!!! And then he gets confused and frustrated at me and wonders why im upset.Any advice.from both sides would help.Anyone else have this problem??I hate trying to be intimate when the man goes too soon.advice?
Yeah, it happens sometimes. But I overlook it because most of the time I'm completely satisfied and he doesn't finish until he knows I have. So it's okay to have a quickie now and then. It is a little disappointing but it's forgivable. Try to get him to get you off manually before penetration or get a toy.I hate trying to be intimate when the man goes too soon.advice?
He needs to get sex more often. If it's too long in between times, he gets very horny and will not last very long when he's in you. The more often you have sex, the longer he'll be able to last each time. He will become used to having sex with you and won't prematurely ejaculate. Or maybe after the first time, give him like 10 minutes and try getting him aroused again so you can go another time. The 2nd time around, he'll definitely last longer.
It's actually rather uncommon for both partners to go off at the same time. A considerate personwill try to be sure their partner has a good time, too, whether by more foreplay or by other play after they've gone off.





If he doesn't listen when you say you're not done and not happy, there's some other problem; he needs to unclog his ears! Try telling him what it is that you want; or, if he thinks what's good for him should be just fine for you, tell him that what he's doing is like if you suddenly rolled over and said ';I'm done'; before he came. I doubt he'd like that very much; it's basically what he's doing to you. Ask him for specific things you'd like for him to do -- guys generally take a while to get ready to go again, but he's still got fingers that work, if nothing else!
If he's ejaculating too early you need to take it back a few steps, slow things down, Without sounding too crude or offencive, get him to play with you, tease you. Making you the centre of attention and as if only your pleasure matters, don't let his penis inside you. Tell him to slow down, if your scared of mentioning it to him, make it a game. your sexual satisfaction is just as important as his and if your not climaxing then he should be trying to fix that (from a male point of view its great to know you made a woman climax, its part of making love and adds to the man's climax) if all this still fails and he's still climaxing too soon try some 'Endurance Condoms' (coated with a small numbing gel to numb his penis tip and make his performance last longer.


Hope i helped.
It's called the me first technique, you go first, then you won't be so frustrated if he finishes too soon. This might be something that will calm itself in time. Since he is so attracted to you, he will probably enjoy a little extended foreplay as well. Sometimes it just takes learning one another's bodies to get things fine tuned.
Several ways to help. 1. Use a condom cause it helps him last longer. 2. When he is about to ';go'; switch positions. 3. When he is about to go again he should pull out and maybe go down on you.I know where you are coming from. Cause then he is asleep snoring and you are pissed off cause you are hornier then you were in the beginning. Talk to him and let him know your frustrations and then he has to let you know when he is about to go so you two can do 1 of the 3 above, if not all 3. But just talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. I did and now I no longer have that problem, never. LOL
This is SUCH a common problem that there is a TON of stuff about it on the net. Google 'premature ejaculation' and find out the many techniques that you and your boyfriend can use to help him last longer.





But you have to tell him what's bothering you before you can make it better.
The solution is simple as long as your man is willing. Stop and go. Have him stop when he is close (but not so close he can't control himself) and wait til he has calmed down. Do this about 5 times (or however many it takes!!!) and that should give you some time to get off. If you do this almost every time you have sex, he will get better at contolling his coming too quick and you will get more pleasure because it will last much longer. good luck!
look its not his fault. what this means is that he is a very passionate man with alot of emotions. best thing for you to do is have a little alcohol to get him relaxed but not to much. 4 or 5 in an hour and a half. its alot preperations but it is what it is. dont tell him either. once he has taken a few back take control and let him relax. do this a few times and it will work. maybe not the first time but dont give up.
yeah, tell him to wait for you.


and if he can't seem to wait, tell him to tink of the most horrid things when he feels hes going to come


because then he won't hehe
OMG yes! i do! it is really frustrating and i try not to show it b/c it would make my bf upset so if he seems close then let him take a break and please you until you both are close. works for me and i have this problem often.
some times that happen to me i don't like it either but 2 minute talk to the guy he is not thinking of your needs only his own little selfish i think spoke to my hus and he is getting better at it now there is fun in there believe me
Have him pleasure you first before he gets to take a ride. An ex of my told him how he would intentionally finish quick because he just wanted to get ';one off';. Yeah it's selfish but men do it all the time.
2 minutes is about normal for most males---if you want satisfaction Better get him to do it orally--otherwise you will be in for a frustrating relationship
he should pleasure you first so you can go first. the he can go second. Then the question becomes who's on third?
He needs to learn to give you oral first and get you to the ';finish'; line first. That way you won't be frustrated by his lack of ';stamina';
I would say let him he get his fast, then let him know you expect a more thorough and satisfying experience...in about 10 minutes. That should get him to be more attentive the first time around pretty quickly! :)
Cunnlingis first, penetration second works for me!! Good luck!
Do the care-beats countdown 5 4 3 2 1!!!
Read and reread your question, fail to see a problem.
Your needs should come first thats how me and my husband have always done it.
my husband used to be that way too. I would get soooooooo mad, but now that we've been together for 11 years I cant wait til hes done. but thats my problem
I think you mean when he CUMS, not when he goes !!!!
Um, 3 words: Buy a dildo.
my wife gets pissed when I go more than 5min...I hate women like you...
Might I suggest that he's a tiny bit selfish?
tell him you want to be ';pleased'; first
sounds like you need a new dude

Involved with a married man, NEED Advice?

I met a man at work and soon after found out he was married with 4 kids, We flirted back anc forth for a bit then one weekend his wife and 2 kids went camping, he kept 2 at home and invited me over. from that night on we have been being intimate with each other. I sometimes feel guilty but my feelings for him wont let me stop. any advice on how to stay in this situation or should i just try and leaveInvolved with a married man, NEED Advice?
End it. Nothing good will come of it. Even if you really fall for him and him for you, he is already married and has a family with someone else. You will end up being really hurt - and you'd never really trust him even if you did end up together. How could you, you know the excuses he makes to be with you? You'd always wonder if there was someone else. Please, for your own sake and sanity, just end it. Involved with a married man, NEED Advice?
i guess married man do have the charisma to attract women cos i had met a case or two.


ask yourself , how would u feel if u are his wife? do u think u can tolerate your husband having an external affairs while u r taking care of his four children and family? do u feel happy if someone toring apart your family?


And actually u have the guts to come over to the his house and 'have fun' while there are 2 kids arounds! *CLAP CLAP Salute!


there's place called HOTELS unless you two can't afford it..


If u think feeling toward him is bigger than your conscience and your gulit,then u no need any advices.u r adult u should know what can be done and what shouldnt be done.


If u really want advices, simple, please stop it now.



I say leave. That is unfair to you and her. Mostly the kids.


From the few details you give it seems as if you would


never be able to trust him because as easily as he cheats


on his wife with you, he can do it with other women. Just


leave him and tell him to remember he has 4 kids.








Find someone who is free and worthy of your time.


Not someone who is already tied down.
dear,


the question is asked not only by u but also by many other people. my suggestion to this is the world is filled with men and women who are unmarried and let us choose from them instead of choosing them from married list. because the person who is already married has a family and children.if u proceed an affair with this one it will create confusion and chaos in his family, which is not a good one. choose the one who is alone and having no family.
The answer is obvious! Stay away from him, okay? Otherwise, his family will think wrong of you and you'll just ruin his marriage. There are lots of other guys out there. It's a good thing that you're thinking about it. Obviously, HE isn't. So this is your chance to escape from doing the biggest mistake of your life.
not good! this is my opinion but you should not be involved with a married man! Think about his wife. Think about the pain it would cause. Think about their kids. Would you like someone to be doing things with your husband? I'd say get OUT of it and leave married guys alone.
If you are looking for something serious with this guy, i hate to break it to you but he's not gonna do that. No matter what he promises you, or suckers you into believing....he won't do it. Do both yourselves a favor, save all the drama and just leave it alone.
Do you really want to be the OTHER woman? Don't break up the family... it's only okay if he's divorced....... and you don't want to be the reason for a marriage to break up. just leave.
just try and leave.


don't break their family up.





and, he isn't really a good man.


a good man wouldn't cheat on his wife.
Leave it. He's married. Run away. You shouldnt even have gotten involved with him at all.
To be perfectly honest, if he is cheating on her, what makes you think he would do the same to you?
Ummm leave!?!? He is obviously not honorable if he cheats on his wife.
Get out He is married with 4 kids
try to leave this is a dead end. and obviously this guy has no morals
Honestly I'd say to back off, what ever is going on between him and his wife needs to be resolved. Don't be the one to destroy their family! Besides whats to say he wouldn't do the same to you. Right now as it is he's cheating on his wife, whether or not their marriage is going well or not he's still cheating, but I'm thinking its not going so well otherwise he wouldn't be cheating with you or any other lady. There's all kind of possibilities, in a way you're saying its okay for a married man to cheat, which, should that ever happen to you, you can't say much yourself as you're sleeping with a married woman's husband. Whether he messed things up or she did, you're still contributing %26amp; if he's the one who messed up think of what its going to be like when she finds out? You're not only hurting her but you're hurting their children asn well. Even if they were on the verge of separating, he should have completed this divorce first before ever getting involved with another person, why add more fuel to the fire. A person should never bring someone else around especially when there are children involved, it may confuse them; at least until things progress and become more serious in a year or so. To a boy it may be an outlook on how to treat women, that its okay to be with other women while you're married. They may feel they have to choose between their motehr and father, this could seriously damage these kids mentally. Bottom line is he cheated, he's got a family %26amp; it seems as though his happiness is more important than that of his family. And yes everyone knows marriages don't always work out, but still he should have went through the whole separation process first whether it was his fault of hers before getting with someone else. There's other men out there, don't get into it any deeper you really have no idea what's going on in his marriage other than what he's telling you %26amp; there's always three sides to a story, his side, her side and the truth.

I’m a larger man, lot of muscle and good amount of “padding”. Anyone to offer advice for supplements/training?

I’m 24 yrs old, and have always been a rather “larger” man. I dont think anyone would call me fat, but husky and thick are definitely target words to describe me. I am 5’11” and currently weigh 255. Even after 4 years of the Marines and all of its intense workouts, along with my own personal training, I was only able to get down to 210 and look decent. Built, but not cut. I find it very easy to gain muscle mass, but its the fat that I have such a hard time losing.





I know they all say, “ya just gotta eat proper and exercise regularly”. Well, I now have a full time job, going to college full time, and just had my first child, so dieting properly and exercising regularly is even harder now than ever.





Lot of people have been saying that I need to try Muscle Milk, and drink it twice daily, once between breakfast/lunch, and once between lunch/dinner. Apparently its supposed to boost my metabolism and greatly decrease my fat amount. Any suggestions/help about any of this? Thanks!I’m a larger man, lot of muscle and good amount of “padding”. Anyone to offer advice for supplements/training?
Maybe what you have there is not fat but water retention that makes your muscles not cut. Reduce your sodium levels, cut down on salt and sugar, or if your'e willing to go hardcore, take foods without oil and sodium like seasoning sauces, salad dressing, salt or sugar, just plain boiled or steamed foods for around 3 weeks, and you'll see results very soon.





I would recommend you to take carbohydrate and protein type foods for breakfast and lunch, and protien and vege foods for dinner. No carbohydrates for dinner, because its the time your activities are the least. Carbohydrates releases a lot of energy, and energy that are not used will be converted to fats. Protein also releases energy, but much slower than carbohydrates, and its being absorbed by the muscles.





Muscle milk increases energy for your workout, metabolism is increased from your workouts. by the way, try taking fish oil, it helps in fat loss in the body, has lots of omega 3, and also good for joint recovery.I’m a larger man, lot of muscle and good amount of “padding”. Anyone to offer advice for supplements/training?
MUSCLE MILK IS A WASTE OF MONEY.


the best supplements in the world are the BSN line, Syntha 6, atro phex, nitrix, you have to stack these to get best resaults. i am 15 and i also am 5 11 and i weigh 205. Im not cut, but i have been stacking these for about 3 weeks and i can see great improvement, i have also lost 12 pounds of pure fat.
Eliminate all carbs for a time and you will get the cuts you are looking for and its an easy diet to follow.

Do you have any advice for an aged man nearly ninety Who is going to marry a young and beautiful girl?

Before engaging in sex, make sure you've taken your heart medicine.Do you have any advice for an aged man nearly ninety Who is going to marry a young and beautiful girl?
better ask girl to run away


if she is not willing


there is something confidential ???Do you have any advice for an aged man nearly ninety Who is going to marry a young and beautiful girl?
Make sure she signs that prenup.......


especially if you ordered her from a catalog (mail order bride) those are the worst.
it not aged that matter it heart





if that girl hav no problem and that man is young from heart than the advice is





be happy and make her world full of happiness
dont do doggy style
don't u think ur making the girl's life miserable??


but still if that girl is loving u truly,,, go ahead,if not just drop off;


be sure she is loving u not ur property;


just spend ur last days peacefully with lots of sweet memories not with these types of idiotic thoughts
i can advise him let him enjoy the life in all the manners as he is enjoying the bonous given by God.Let him not waste a minute of the heavenly life.
I dont advice it. If you love her your only going to hurt her because when your dead how is she going to feel ? Let her have a life before you take it all away from her.
Get in shape and by lots of Viagra... Good luck!
the only thing i can say is two words for u: Viagra, and Prenup... be careful and dont let her steal your heart and all your belongings... If u truly love her make sure she truly loves u and keep all your possessions...
yes .......DON'T
all the best and enjoy your remaining H O U R S happily
Just watch your back and your meds!!!!
Asker of the advice for whoever (not for yourself) u r asking be informed that the old man doesn't need any advice where as the young beautiful girl needs some but I'm afraid I can't give one because u don't seek any for her. U may however ask the person( if other than u ) to make all documents available for bride before marriage as I'm guessing , the girl consents to marry him ( if not u ) to achieve those.
YOU THE MAN!! you don't need any advice it sounds like you are doing great! if anything people should be taking advice from you! lol
A very old man marrying a young and beautiful woman, is still possible, but it is always a disadvantage for the old man, because he is no longer capable of giving the sexual desires of a young woman. And the tendency is that the young wife will always be unfaithful to her old husband because she will be looking for someone at her age who can fully satisfy her sexual need and desires.





Base on some statistical records, the motive of the young woman is not actually love and companionship, but the wealth of the old man, or whatever resources the oldman has. So if I would be a son or a daughter of a very old father who wants to marry a young and beautiful woman, I would rather suggest that they should make some agreement regarding the wealth and money of the family, for protection and security purposes, so that the woman or wife to be will not abuse and take advantage over my father and the family as a whole.





If the woman is really sincere and honest to mary the old man because of love, then there is no problem about such agreement. Good Luck and God Bless!
Be gentle.
PRE NUP !!!!!!!!
you just want to brag I see:)
Yes - make sure you leave your money to your family and only give her a small portion of it! Make sure your will is signed!!


Gold diggers - they are everywhere it seems.
injoy
KEEP THE GRAVE DUG and transfer your property and insurance to the girls name and pay advance to the UNDERTAKER
please make sure that the girl is not a golddigger or else she will push you down the stairs!!!!
lol....u d 1 with d wisdom...u should noe....





get d most out of it.....
aren't u ashamed of urself by marrying someone who could be ur daughter or grand daughter.





I say ask forgivness from lord.
maybe you will die early in bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
get lotsa insurance cause in about (no more than) 20 yrs,she'll need it to bury him
prenup--prenup--prenup
NAIL DOWN THE WILL. Clear, signed, approved, and in a well-known safety deposit box, well ahead of the big send-off. This nonagenarian may not have as much moolah as J. Howard Marshall did, but we really, really don't need another lame-brained Anna Nicole Smith-style inheritance case clogging the courts for years.
make your will as soon as possible
it is just a stupidity of an old man marrying a young girl.what guarrantee do u have that he will live tomorrow.it is a matter of issue as a young girl is being spoiled.

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What is that website called, advice from a man?

well i know there was this one website i found one time that gave personal advice for women, whatever the situation was. I know it's a little vague but if anyone could give any recommendations or who would actually know which website i'm talking about it'd be a great help.





advice from a man for woman.What is that website called, advice from a man?
The Answer Man?





My mother used say that I had an answer for everything.What is that website called, advice from a man?
Why don't you try a different Category in Y!A where you can ask a personal question about anything and get a variety of answers.

I need some good advice,just called it quits with my man?

he wasn't texting and calling over the weekend(told me he had no credit). so i sent him a message asking what we are doing and where are we leading to and he didn't answer.all he says is fine then call it quits. i think he was using me and seeing someone else at the same time. and on his myspace he has 100's of girls from where he lives on there saying he owes them love and if he wants to chat.i've done the right thing haven't i?I need some good advice,just called it quits with my man?
About the myspace thing, I must say, girls always say that to guy friends, ';I lovee you!'; etc, etc. So don't take it personally, it's not like he's running over to their house to screw them.


One weekend of distance, no big deal! I mean, he had a legit reason, and if you really care about him you should believe that he was being honest. I need some good advice,just called it quits with my man?
There's an old saying... If it feels right do it. You didn't really break it off. It sounds like it was a mutual agreement.





Go on with your life, and I truly hope you find a guy that treats you right.
you go girl !!!!!!! yes ,i would did it laso
oh hunny. good thing u let it go now. should have done this way eariler.
Yes honey, you did. Sorry but at least you now know the loser he is.
yes you have, he has to many woman on myspace from near his area.
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSS
oh good golly,


good luck is all i can say(:
What was the clue he was using you? Your screen name? Got played move on.
it will be hard but kick him to the curb! i just broke up with my man and it is hard but for my daughters sake and my mental health i had to!!!
The FIRST thing you do is get rid of that horrible name. Don't you see how disrespectful to yourself you are being? And every time you see it, whether you know it or not, your brain will recognize it as what you are. STOP dissing yourself. There are more than enough people out there willing to do it, and will if you let them. Of (freaking) course you did the right thing in dumping the stupid player. Frankly, he sounds like a narcissist. He's in love with HIM. Make a good life for yourself. Why does it seem like you don't want to?
You done the right thing he should tell you why he could not text you back or call you just move on whit your life find some one better than him
YES! Move on, he doesn't sound like he is trying to pursue a relationship. It seems as if he's already busy with other females. so move on a find a man that would appreciate you
Good for you! You did the right thing and won't regret it.
yep
you did the right for sure! props to you.
definitely...you wont be around when he picks up herpes
Yes you did. He obviously cannot be trusted and you should NOT be with a guy that is treating you like that. Pat yourself on the back, you got out of that one.
yea you need to find someone else..you are worth more than you allow yourself to believe

Any advice on getting rid of man boobs?

Go to the gym. Work outAny advice on getting rid of man boobs?
Here's what you need to do to Lose Man Boobs...





1. Start adding Turmeric into your Diet. Turmeric is a spice (in the ginger family). It's been used for hundreds of years and is totally safe. The benefit of adding Turmeric to your diet is that it concentrates fat burning to the chest area. This little wonder spice will make your workouts a LOT more effective.





2. Do cardio every other day for only 25 minutes at a time at an intense pace. You want short, high intensity cardio workouts because these workouts will put your body into anaerobic fat burning mode (as opposed to aerobic mode). If you run too much you'll burn muscle along with the fat and your man boobs will sag much more.





3. Do a lot of inclined bench press, shoulder press and chest fly exercises. Use dumbells for these. Dumbells will force your chest to use its stabalizer muscles which will be more effective for burning chest fat. The idea of the incline bench press is to raise your muscle and pull up the loose hanging skin from your nipple area. It works!





4. Eat 6 small meals a day to boost your metabolism and put fat burning into overdrive. By eating smaller meals more frequently in conjunction with your new workout routine, your body will become a fat burning machine. Also as you continue the weight lifting regimen, your newly grown muscles will steal energy from fat stores in your body and get you ripped!





5. Have a plan. Don't just go into everyday all willy nilly with no real goal. Setup a workout schedule if you're serious. Never quit. Remember, it's more than just your appearance at stake - think about your health. Stay motivated and don't stop believing!!!





For the REAL DEAL step by step workout plans and secrets to losing chest and belly fat FAST, check out the source link below. Best of Luck!!! :)Any advice on getting rid of man boobs?
Diet and exercise, depending on your body type and what your goals are. A VERY basic approach to do it on your own would be to do some form of cardio for 15-20 minutes, and 100 pushups daily. Sounds like alot of pushups, but if you need too, just break the 100 down. Do 10 when you wake up, 10 after lunch, 10 before cardio, 10 after cardio, etc etc. Or go to a gym and get a personalized workout.
Go to the gym.





Then go to a hospital and see the end result of not taking care of yourself--heart disease, diabetes, strokes--all the result of being overweight.





We're all going to die but we can have a more pleasant life with minimal doctors and hospitals in it if we take a little care of ourselves.
man boobs are genetics, your dad, grandfather or other relative probly had them. you can either wait until your done with puberty or just try to burn the fat and get more muscle and see if they get away.


try pushups or benchpress
are they boobs or pecks. If they are boobs you need to loose weight. if they are pecks, it is a good thing, it means you have mucles
hit the gym man!!

An elderly man of 60yrs raped a female child of 8yrs. Analyse the case and give advice ethically.?

To the general public who will want to find reasons why it happenAn elderly man of 60yrs raped a female child of 8yrs. Analyse the case and give advice ethically.?
Methinks you are the Troll in yet another disguise.An elderly man of 60yrs raped a female child of 8yrs. Analyse the case and give advice ethically.?
It is impossible to analyze the case, or give advice, without proper facts. As to why it happened. . . there could be many reasons. . . It happens more and more. . all I know is that it is gross ! A victim of 8 is an innocent child !!! The man is totally at fault !! Some states give the death penalty to a child molester/rapists and I am all for it. . That child will live with that remembrance her whole life ! She will need counseling!!! This is something she will never get over ! No matter how sorry he is, it will not make up for the damage he has done ! I don't know if God will have mercy on him !
It's impossible to analyze without more info. I suspect the man was a repeat offender %26amp; the child was improperly watched over. I'm certain that early childhood abuse of the man served a large part of him wanting to pass on his treatment to others.
he is a sexual predator. he should receive the maximum penalty allowed by law. there should be no concern for any type of rehabilitation for him. our only concern should be for the young victim. the pervert should be required to liquidate any and all assets to assist the girl and her family with therapy, education, etc.
It is my personal belief that there are three types of evil..........pedophiles, serial killers, and people who are cruel to animals. As for your use of ethical in your question is absurd and why he did it only he knows. I personal don't give a rat's a** why he did only that he is punished, hopefully, with the death sentence.
Ethically...the ';elderly'; man should


have his ';elderly'; azz put in the


penitentiary with some other


';elderly'; prisoners who will


know just what to do with


him...Ethically!
Sure. The guy is a pervert, needs prison, because it's murder to sh**t him, the child needs counseling. What is left to analyze.
There is no ethical advice as there is no sane validation possible.
60 yrs old is NOT elderly these days. He's a pedophile and should be chemically castrated and put in prison to rot.
'Cause he an effin' sicko that can't get any from anyone his own age so he has to prowl on the innocence of young children. I hope he burns in hell
Put him in a room with me for 10 minutes.


I'll analyse the sonofabitch.
You tell us why you did it.
Bull. This is an assignment and you're trying to get us to answer it for you.
No thank you.
There is no validation, his age is irrelevant. The only questions I have are : Was the man known to be a sex offender, or someone who was criminally dangerously insane or mentally ill? Was there neglect on the part of a person or persons (caretakers or the Justice System)responsible for keeping him from the public and/or children? Was the offender a family member and were the family aware of his mental problems and failed to protect their child?





Any man who rapes or sexually molests a child or any person who sexually assaults another person should get the death penalty IMO.





In cases of Alzheimer's or dementia, mental illness or disease that has created this kind of sexual aggression and behaviour then someone is or should be accountable for controlling his behaviour, there are medications for one thing, and making sure he is kept from the public in a secure facility.





Society is far too ready to try and excuse criminal behavior. Thousands upon thousands of people had abusive childhoods and did NOT grow up to criminals, rapists, and sexual predators, that is pure bull sh*t and research does NOT support any proof of predisposition. It is a matter of free will and choice. Some people CHOOSE to hurt other people to retataliate for the hurt done to them, they are not unable to control their impulses or behavior, they CHOOSE not to.





The feel justified, someone hurt me so I am going to hurt someone else. These people should get the death penalty, we all have the ability to make choices about our behavior.

How can i become a porn actor? I am 23yrs old man. Plz advice.?

With that face?!?!?! Don't even bother! they can't use models with paper bags on their faces. NEXT!How can i become a porn actor? I am 23yrs old man. Plz advice.?
First...get an stdHow can i become a porn actor? I am 23yrs old man. Plz advice.?
Find Paris Hilton, and tape your encounter, sell it to the tabloids for big bucks, and live the rest of your life assured in the knowledge that everyone and their mom's have seen you naked, and never wanted to.
at first you can sex with your mother and sell that in your country , then you can come atomatically a porn actor
you're pathetic.
Got Goods? I dont think so !!!
if you have the equipment and can control it,.................. contact any porn site
get a life, dirty
find a very attractive young woman who is also fresh to the business and have her pledge to only do scenes with you. you can approach an agent as a team and although they will really want her ';talent'; they will have no choice but to employ you if they want her. Ride her success until you become popular enough to branch off on your own.
Move to L.A., get an AIDS test and an agent.
Well stop being a dumb *** would be a good start
GO TO HOLLYWOOD AND WALK AROUND NAKED
Get a real job and don't humiliate yourself.
people are getting aids from that
you will never be a porn star if a girl looks at you there going to say whers the guy the girls ******** there not going to relise its you
Get a life. I'm not even kidding one bit.
Get a REAL job NERD. Grow up too! Porn? 23 yrs old? YOUR NOT A REAL MAN!!!!!!

PLEASE HELP> Anyone ever date a Mexican man? Any advice,tips,ways there differant,what to expect?

If your a Mexican guy and know these answers? Serious please.PLEASE HELP%26gt; Anyone ever date a Mexican man? Any advice,tips,ways there differant,what to expect?
Seriously don 't marry one.. After several months, they'll change attitude on you .. To the point where it seems that he will have a leash on you . What certain friends to see, where you going and for how long, you'd be has MAID instead his mate, certain clothes to wear, how to style your hair a certain way , and the list could go on and on .


I ve seen it happen and heard from other wives many times.PLEASE HELP%26gt; Anyone ever date a Mexican man? Any advice,tips,ways there differant,what to expect?
i am dating a mexican now-they are not greasy,they are hard workers and good with money, they dont ask for much. some are controlling but if you are serious to marry you need to sit them down and explain it will be a equal relationship. but they do not want you talking to other guys BIG NO NO.

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i am dating a mexican now-they are not greasy,they are hard workers and good with money, they dont ask for much. some are controlling but if you are serious to marry you need to sit them down and explain it will be a equal relationship. but they do not want you talking to other guys BIG NO NO.

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That not just true about Mexicans,but the majority of Latinos.Thats why I'm sticking to gringos from now on!

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I will only date Mexican men, - they are the best!

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hey totch are u gay, how do you know about mex guys? my friend married a ';white girl'; she does whatever the heck she wants and my friend is ok with it, I am dting a white chick and I do the same for her, meaning she has freedom, geeez, what worl do you redneck/honkys live in??

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hey totch are u gay, how do you know about mex guys? my friend married a ';white girl'; she does whatever the heck she wants and my friend is ok with it, I am dting a white chick and I do the same for her, meaning she has freedom, geeez, what worl do you redneck/honkys live in??

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I dated a couple in high school and I dont know that I can tell you much about them. They are all different. Personalities and behaviors were different. I think the only thing they had in common was they loved mexican food.
From what i have seen (living in a border town) expect to be cheated on the rest of your life, even when they are like, 83. Expect him to act macho and expect to be his slave/wife. Expect the kids to come before you, especially the sons..expect his family to treat you great at first, and like crap later, telling him he should have married in his own race.


advice? Don't do it..unless you just hate life and wish to sign it away .
why should mexican man be any different from a non mexican man? we all want to get in woman panties ultimately.
With a question like that, you're looking for stereotypes. Not all White Americans are the same, or all the French, etc. Just find out how he is as an individual, not a nationality.
i am a mexican were not different at all were all the same just be your self an dyou will be fine
they'r a bit more to the point and quite touchy. so iv heard. be careful with yourself.
They are no different than any other man in the world. But if you are not Mexican, not even Latin, be aware that it will be a little more difficult, just because you are two different people, for different sides of the world, and different culture, language, etc. but nothing that you cant get used to with time, a lot of tolerance and respect.
Just like any other man, some nice some not...but I did hear that they are more possessive over their woman...just have fun...and decide for yourself!!
Well they are very greasy so make sure you have a lot of baby power around. They could be more honest. Make sure they wash regularly and USE SOAP! Just keep an eye on them at all times and you should be fine. Good Luck!!

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My 17 year old daughter is dating a 20 year old man. Any advice on what to do? Or should I do anything?

Talk to the guy, at 20 he should be mature enough to have a conversation with you so that you can find out the sort of guy he is. After that, just support your daughter and hope he treats her right.My 17 year old daughter is dating a 20 year old man. Any advice on what to do? Or should I do anything?
I dated a 20 year old man when I was 17. We were married and had a baby when I was 18 and he was 21. We are still together after 17 years.My 17 year old daughter is dating a 20 year old man. Any advice on what to do? Or should I do anything?
The question is, is she dating a GOOD man or a BAD man? Three years age difference, even at that age, does not seem like a big deal to me. Don't get caught up on age, the things you should focus on as a parent are whether he is a good person with pure intentions, or whether he is not the type of person you would want your child associating with, regardless of his age. If he was 30, I could see your concern...but 3 years is no big deal...they could have been in high school at the same time. Obviously, I don't know your daughter, but I would recommend not approaching her regarding his age, but regarding his character.
If it were my daughter, it would not have began in the first place... This would not be an issue... She never would have tried this one, and he would be under the jail, the perv... However, it is your child, make the decision that is best for you. Why would you expect strangers to give you and answer to this question? If it is ok with you then ok, if not then do something about it. It is your responsibility as her mother to raise her in the way she is to go, give her the tools she needs to make wise decisions. Not to be her best friend. Good luck and God bless****
20 years old is not that old, after all just one year ago he was a teen himself. Most 20 year olds have not been around and learned the ways of the world yet. I depends on how mature he is for his age. If he is a good guy I wouldn't let that age difference bother me. Most guys can't afford a girlfriend at an earlier age because they can't afford it.

Advice me please: what good job for Creepy man who live in van by cemetery?

High School Janitor. It'll help if you stare at teen girls a little too long.Advice me please: what good job for Creepy man who live in van by cemetery?
That's the spirit Creeper. You CAN do!

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Advice me please: what good job for Creepy man who live in van by cemetery?
Creepy man no speaking the English much?
neighborhood watchman
Take the mask off Old man Jenkins
Grave digger.
Grave Keeper, maybe...?
hu? lol: )

Does anyone have any advice for an American man who is about to marry a Russian woman?

In a couple of months my fiancee will come to me here in the USA and we will marry. To answer your obvious questions:


No, we did not meet through the internet we met while I was working in Russia.


Yes, I have seen her and I know her better than most men know their fiancees.





Anyway, I just thought that since other people have done this perhaps you could let me know what I can do to help her adjust and be happy. Spasibo!Does anyone have any advice for an American man who is about to marry a Russian woman?
Learn Russian! If you have that mastered, you are ahead of the game. She will appreciate that, unless she is very fluent in English. Make sure she gets some time to learn about her new culture, don't expect her to sit at home and cook all day. Give her passes to local museums, art galleries, sporting events, concerts, anything. Learn Russian cuisine and make her meals that remind her of home, while introducing her to ';American'; foods.





Plan weekend getaways and spend lots of alone time with her. It can be lonely and overwhelming to move to a new and scary country.





Good luck!Does anyone have any advice for an American man who is about to marry a Russian woman?
I suspect that she will soon advise you herself on what you can do to make her happy..... As you're already her Fiancee, then you must be half way there already..........The very best to both of you !.
Be the best fiance ever. Shower her with kindness and gifts and make her feel at home. She's moving around the globe to be with you so you must be doing something right.
I don't know but you should try talking to her about things that would make her comfortable! I am very happy for you and your to-be wife, and I hope you two have a great future. Maybe wikipedia Russian culture,





Blessed Be








- Don't listen to the people who are sterotyping your wife, they don't know her.
make sure when she comes that she says that she doesnt plan on marrying anyone in the US when she is at Customs. Otherwise, they will most likely deny her entrance into the US. Just have her say she is visiting friends and touring.
She will break you!
well, my advice is don't do it unless you are 100% positive she is the real deal.





if you are convinced you must marry her then when she comes to america try to make her feel as comfortable as possible. make sure she knows that she can still hold on to her russian culture, she doesn't have to completely give that up to be an american. answer all her questions to the best of your ability. just think back to when you went to a place that wasn't familar to you. such as a new job. how did you feel? what things made you feel better and more comfortable? Be as supportive as possible and don't get fustrated if she doesn't understand certian american ways of doing things.





good luck


%26amp; congrats!


:]
RUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
be very careful. that is all i want to say.
Yes-DON'T!!!!





I know tons of ';Russian Brides'; at work and they all ';fall in love'; with Americans, come over here, and send for their mothers in a few months. They'll rule your life, push you around and make your life miserable. Do it only if you want to hand your balls over and never see them again.





LMAO at ';Russian women are hot';- which ones, the ones with mustaches or arms bigger than my waist?
Get a prenup. She might be shell shocked if she never came to america, i am not saying she will do anything bad, but the temptation is there. keep your money to yourself, and if she loves u she will sign.





Good Luck
She's gonna be hard to communicate with.
good luck, buddy. When it comes to certain cultural differences, take it in stride.
well it helps if you know her but lock down your assets for 5 yrs till you know for sure. i know a lot of scams and drama from loads of men who marry russian women and asian.thai women... manipulative and greedy and dominating after a few momnths when they get what they want and then pull the abuse card once they find out how that bloody works. lock her in a prenup.. if she doesn't do it then you know she is a scammer and liar. sorry.
I think the best thing to do is make sure that she really loves you and is not just looking for a greencard





No offence but it has happened before








If it's tru love...and I hope it is , introduce her to all of your friends....maybe take some extra holiday time when she comes over so you can help her adjust , etc








good Luck and Congrats
they are strong
she does not speak english?


well then, if she has problems with that, might as well helping her out with what ever has to do with her english.








put it like this, if she feels good with you, if she feels welcomed in your home and as youe wife, she will find her path and make it through here in the usa.


all you have to do is show her you love her (that is of course if you really do and this really isnt one of those pick through the net russian girl kinda thing) be romantic, support her when she needs it, and just be there for her always when ever need!!








good luck.
congrats. Russian women are hot.
learn hecca good russian


and how to cook russian food


nothing reminds you of home like food and language

What is good advice for a man with Chron's disease? Any tips?

Chron's disease appears to be a multiple-drug resistant tuberculosis caught from cattle (Johnne's disease). It makes its home in the lower small intestine and all of the colon. You will probably need to add the following professionals to your support system:


1) Gastroenterologist.


2) Taiwan-trained TCM physician (Chinese powdered herbal knowledge is very rare in the US but is imperative). Alternative is certified Ayurvedic physician.


3) Yoga instructor.


4) Macrobiotic diet teacher (cooking classes).





Catch it early enough and you might be able to avoid an illiostomy with colectomy, pooping into a bag for the rest of your live, with a cost of about $ 175 a month for pouches, wafers, tape, paste, and occasional powder %26amp; creams (to reduce or cure heat rash caused by contact with the plastics).





Do lots of internet research. Energize your BS Detector and don't even think of trusting your doctor. Don't be fooled by frauds %26amp; idiots. And don't get ripped off by the professionals above. Herbal doctors frequently charge ridiculous amounts for capsules. Don't bother with capsules. The freeze-dried powder mixture for your condition should cost $ 7/day.


Be very wary of steroid use - neuropathy is pretty nasty and very difficult to cure (loss of nerve health in fingers and toes).





Good luck %26amp; may GOD bless.


gWhat is good advice for a man with Chron's disease? Any tips?
Smoke a joint.What is good advice for a man with Chron's disease? Any tips?
Don't fart in church
As someone who has had this disease for over 10 years the best advice i can give is avoid dairy in large amounds, avoid spicy foods in large amounts, find a doctor you are comfortable talking with and trust, dont miss doses of your medication, get plenty of rest, and dont let it stop you from doing the things that make you happy in life
Hiya I am a 29 year old female with Chron's. i've had it since i was 7. Try to avoid eggs and dairy products if you can. Oh and stress can make it real bad. Keep well xx
Crohns, is very had to say what is right treatment its kind of an individual thing, Your Dr will get you on meds that will work for you. Its not curable, but it is livable. I was diagnosed last year after emergency surgery for a blockage, and its an everyday challenge

I’m a larger man, lot of muscle and good amount of “padding”. Anyone to offer advice for supplements/training?

I’m 24 yrs old, and have always been a rather “larger” man. I dont think anyone would call me fat, but husky and thick are definitely target words to describe me. I am 5’11” and currently weigh 255. Even after 4 years of the Marines and all of its intense workouts, along with my own personal training, I was only able to get down to 210 and look decent. Built, but not cut. I find it very easy to gain muscle mass, but its the fat that I have such a hard time losing.





I know they all say, “ya just gotta eat proper and exercise regularly”. Well, I now have a full time job, going to college full time, and just had my first child, so dieting properly and exercising regularly is even harder now than ever.





Lot of people have been saying that I need to try Muscle Milk, and drink it twice daily, once between breakfast/lunch, and once between lunch/dinner. Apparently its supposed to boost my metabolism and greatly decrease my fat amount. Any suggestions/help about any of this? Thanks!I’m a larger man, lot of muscle and good amount of “padding”. Anyone to offer advice for supplements/training?
If you start changing somethings up it'll really help. Like doing 3 sets of cardio for 30 minutes. You don't have to go to a gym to do that, you can jump rope for 5 minutes with a 1 minute break in between, and then repeat till you do it 6 times. Also if you do at least 20 push ups every hour, or as many times as possible as a day it will help to get you going in the right place.


For eating, pair your food smartly. Don't pair pasta or high carbs with protien. Have your protien with a green and it will help you feel fuller. Eating more complex carbs earlier will help you to maximize their energy instead of retaining it. So don't pair steak and potatoes, I know good carbs and protein, but try it for a couple of weeks and it should help make a difference.I’m a larger man, lot of muscle and good amount of “padding”. Anyone to offer advice for supplements/training?
try this, vut your meals in half, it works for me to loose those few extra pounds. count your cals, choose low fat foods and it'll work out i promise
I used www.musclebuilderusa.com and I finally got some results. Although it takes a lot of dedication to get really ripped, you can build some nice arms and pecs with this program.


This isn't an ad or anything, it just worked for me. I'm sure there's others around that work as well.

Question to women, about womens health? Im a man needing advice?

Hi my wife has got significantly thinner over this past year, even though she was thin before, she's got even thinner, I dont know much about womens clothes sizes and all that but she's always been quite thin. What could be causing it? Cause she isn't trying to lose weight. And I know she's eating properly cause we usually eat together and she actually eats quite a lot, even if it's not at a meal time. She doesnt seem upset about anything. What could be causing this? Any suggestions from women would be helpful,thanksQuestion to women, about womens health? Im a man needing advice?
It might be her metabolism just speeding up, if she does more exercise daily (maybe even walking more than she used to).





It could also indicate an overactive thyroid, this makes women lose weight, but increases their appetite.


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Either way, it is best she goes to the doctors for some blood tests, since losing weight without trying (although it may seem good) can actually be a symptom of a serious problem.Question to women, about womens health? Im a man needing advice?
your wife could be bulimic. If you are bulimic you normally eat allot and then go barf it up. I would have her go to the doctor and if she refuses to then you know that is what she has. Sorry but you need to get her to a doctor.
she could be extremely stressed out over something. if she's lost so much weight it looks as if shes sick or something, she should go to the doctor to see whats going on with her body!


good luck to the both of you!


hope this helps in some way!
It could be her thyroid, she should have it checked

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I want to get back at a worthless man. any advice on this?

a friend and i spent our summer as interns.Our boss, a married guy in his late 20's was at first so nice towards me and was always giving me attention that i made a huge mistake.i fell for him and had an affair with him. i kept it a secret and didnt even tell my friend abt the affair. but after a month and a week had passed he suddenly turned cold and never returned my txt messages. this was when our internship was over. i was shocked to learn from my friend that she's fallen for this man and they're dating now. i was so mad at them and told my friend that he's dating a pig and all that i finally told her about my mistake and that this man is going to ruin her but my friend doesnt mind i think. i'm really mad and hurting. should i get back at him and tell his wife about him and my friend? will he go to jail for it? we're both 18.I want to get back at a worthless man. any advice on this?
if you are both 18 he won't go tot jail, but don't spend anymore time dwelling on this jerk, You have your whole life ahead of you, believe me you will find someone that is better. He is going to get caught don't worry about that, just make sure it's not with you.I want to get back at a worthless man. any advice on this?
first no about the jail thing your both legal, but you just need to get over it .Your just upset because he is now seeing your friend because if he was still seeing you ,then you wouldn't care. When you were seeing him it didn't bother you that he was married so you need to find someone who is single %26amp; will care for you for who you are, this one those things that you learn from %26amp; don't do again like sticking you finger in a light socket chances are your friend will have the same thing happen to her %26amp; she'll have to learn the hard way too.

I am a Gemini woman dating a Capricorn man, Any Advice? I am totally smitten!?

WHEN I LOOK UP COMPATIBILITY, IT SAYS ALL BAD THINGS, BUT I THINK I GOT A DIFFERENT CAP, BECAUSE HE IS ANYTHING BUT SERIOUS, AND HE MAKES ME LAUGH A LOT... I KNOW I SHOULDN'T WEIGH SO MUCH ON ASTROLOGY IT JUST BOTHERS ME...ANY GOOD ADVICE, I WOULD MARRY HIM IF HE ASKED :pI am a Gemini woman dating a Capricorn man, Any Advice? I am totally smitten!?
Ask yourself this question; if you had a child and the child was the wrong star sign would you still love your baby?


What is wrong with you women; concentrate on your man, and on finding that place in your love that is strong enough to weather any storm.


Base what you have found on reality, or you鈥檒l miss out on this important moment


We are better off dedicating the time to finding out about the real person!


If I meet a woman and she start all of this, I KNOW that she do not want to know about the real me.


Please go and touch base with your man, when you find someone give it your best shot, no short cuts, EVER!


Bless you, have a great time.





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What is the strongest magic in the universe?


It is love, so even if all of the astrological stars were opposed to your LOVE


I know I would always choose love, what about you?I am a Gemini woman dating a Capricorn man, Any Advice? I am totally smitten!?
Would you give up the person you love just because a magazine tells you it won't work? Just because th stars are in a particular pattern one evening? Would you dump your lover because he wasn't born in a particular month? The pattern of stars or whatever will not affect your compatability. GO for it, I'm sure you'll agree that your happiness is more important than what some money making scam tells you.
Hi youve been reading to much mystic meg, hee hee. According to Russel Grant you are compatible. But honestly, its love that matters, trust , and kindness, and everyone is capable of that, It dosennt matter what sighn you are really.
lol astrology is just non sense you shouldn't even worry about it because if you feel like you really love him then skrew it just forget about that signs stuff and stay with him and he happy
Here's some advice: Turn off Caps Lock and quit reading horoscopes.
Best advice I can offer is this;





Look at the goods, not the label!!
give me a break. do you actually beleive that c r a p ?


get a grip

Can an Emirati (UAE) woman marry a western man? legal advice / options?

I'm an Emirati woman and I want to know whether it鈥檚 possible legally to marry a western man who is not Muslim. I know it CAN鈥檛 be done in the country but what are my options (I鈥檓 talking about how to get married legally, pls nothing about him not being Muslim, because I鈥檓 not also.. Except that it says so in my passport). I was wondering if anyone was in such a situation and how they sorted it out.





Please nothing regarding religion, I know a muslim should marry only a muslim. But it doesn鈥檛 concern me. I just want a legal advice and how I could possible marry the man I love.





Thanks.Can an Emirati (UAE) woman marry a western man? Legal advice / options?
If you love each other it doesn't matter what religion you are. Perhaps this is the fundamental difference between the arab countries and the 'decadent' west.


We tolerate.Can an Emirati (UAE) woman marry a western man? Legal advice / options?
other countries outside the middle east are not so concerned about the religions of the two people getting married.





get married in his country if that is the case.





you might want to consider how wise it would be to ever return to your country in such a situation before taking such a step.

So gosh darn confused--i need a man's advice!?

ok, my fiance doesn't have sex with me as much. i recently gained about 10 pounds or so, but im not fat, and he tells me constantly how sexy, gorgeous, beautiful i am (and he always grabs me in certain places ;) anywho, we have sex maybe 1-2 times a week. he's 23, im 22, so we r still young and should both have high sex drives, well i do, he doesn't. i know when he gets home he's tired, blah blah blah, but so am i, and i still want him badly!!! he always turns me down when i try, so i just assume not try. it frustrates me and screws with my self-esteem when he rejects me CONSTANTLY. a few times now, i've waken up and gone to get something to drink only to find him masturbating to porn(i understand guys love to watch porn, i like it sometimes too, but when you're turning your fiance down all the time, but go watch porn, there's something wrong, right?please correct me if i'm wrong)i have discussed this with him on numerous occasions, but he tells me the same thing, im tired, im not sexual like you(he sure as hell was a few months ago)my back hurts, blah blah blah. so, guys, what do you think? is he cheating?is he not attracted to me anymore(even though he tells me how gorgeous i am all the time)? or is he just a prude(even though just a few months ago he was a horn-dog all the time)?what should i do?So gosh darn confused--i need a man's advice!?
Ok, so I'm not a man.....However, it's not rocket science. It's no effort to satisfy himself. He's not into the whole matter of going thru the time consuming effort to please another, when he can get it done in half the time, and no effort. Until he can resolve his self gratification, and porn issue, you will continue to be his leftovers.......Sorry.....鈾モ櫏So gosh darn confused--i need a man's advice!?
he may be cheating, but lots of guys get addicted to porn, because there's no commitment on his part. He's not a prude. twice a week is pretty normal, actually. talk to a professional; he may not think he needs help, so you do, because he will wear down your self-esteem with his behavior.
I'm sorry to say that he's just lazy. It takes an effort to have sex with a woman and try to please her. He just wants a quick and easy ';0';. Myself, I would always rather have a mutual sexual experience...but that's just me. He's not thinking of you...just himself. Selfish and lazy. You may want to reconsider spending your life with this guy.
I would be upset about the masturbation if he is turning you down....my partner has a lower sex drive then me.....but he doesn't masturbate so I accept 1-2 times a week for sex. I don't know what his deal is....but I would definitely be talking to him about it, to find out.
I cant say if he is cheating, but that is weird crap why turn down the real deal to pleasure yourself, a guy will not notice a gain of 10 lbs, I would confront him and say get on me or get the f out lol..
if hes not playing around .. when your there ..then hes nuts .. i would play with you 24/7 //// if i had the chance .. so hes up to no good ..i bet .next time hes on the porn .. undress and then see .. .
Probably you have driven him nuts with your over rated sexual demands. So he thinks he cannot satisfy you to your liking. He is sulking and fulfills his part of the sexual desire in privacy, keeping more to himself.Just play it cool baby. If you want so much sex out of this man, get him prepared for it first. It some times happens that he gets exhausted out of ideas towards sex, or some thing might be bothering him inside. Play it soft and let him do the dominant role, and try to bring him back to his horn-dog way. Good luck.
after the first three sentances I knew the issue was porn. This is absolutely typical of porn addiction. Your sex life will be worse after you marry, I promise. Get him to give up the porn or you. Don't play second fiddle to a video.





he needs help. This is a difficult addiction to break. There are all kinds of emotions wrapped up in porn addictions -- in part that actual sex isn't the same as porn sex and he might be afraid he isn't ';man enough'; for you.





get counseling and please do not get married until this is resolved.
Talk to him and don't take ';I'm tired'; for answer.


That the guy equiv. of ';I have a headache.';


You have to approach it very gently and give him the emotional room to be honest without hurting you, himself, or starting a fight.





It's tempting to jump to porn/masturbation addiction but I think there is another underlying cause in this case because he changed behavior while with you.





Do you/did you turn him down with any frequency?


Do you use condoms?


Do you have opposite working schedules? Did your schedules change?


Are you very demanding in bed? Does he feel he's not adequate?





1-2 times a week is not a high sex drive. That's moderate, even low considering your age and lack of other obligations (e.g. no kids!).





Most men would lit their stash on fire with glee if their women wanted it all the time.
wouldn't assume he's cheating unless theres proof, however most likely he is not attracted to you the way he use to be, you never said why you gained weight...if he's watching online porn, maybe he 's on dating websites and is cyber cheating, check it out, at 22/23 I was in it all the time 3-4 times a day, get at me if ya need some help!
It's very possible that he just doesn't have a strong libido. Believe it or not it happens. This is why I, and others on here, often advise people to learn of their partners sexual experience and desires before marriage. Some couple simply aren't compatible. This may be the case with you and yours. Sorry but he apparently wants it less than you. Maybe it's time to go separate ways.
Well, first thing: make sure this is resolved before the wedding happens. If the wedding is tomorrow, you HAVE to tell everyone you are sorry, but there's something that needs to be resolved first. Don't worry about them, it's your marriage and your future. Don't get married with this hanging over you. And give it some time AFTER it's resolved before you restart the wedding plans.





I'd say that yes, it is your weight that is a problem. This is less of a problem than most women think, and more men than you think are okay with a little bit more, versus a little bit less weight.





But he is looking at women on line who are probably not 10 pounds overweight.





Here's a tactic that will help you get into his head. Figure out how to join him in his on-line viewing, and join him in his ';release';. He still will want to be alone sometimes, so if you say something like ';I can't do this very often, but today I can';, it'll make him feel more comfortable about letting you join him. He won't feel like he has to leave the house to be alone.





This will help you understand his sexuality in this context. It will help you know what he wants, what this appetite is about. It will help you know if it's something you need to worry about or maybe something you can gradually take over, and I mean take over with his enthusiastic approval. Not with his grudging approval.





The fact is, you cannot control this appetite of his. He is going to have it until he is done. You can influence it, and you can endear yourself to him so much that he forgets all about it.





Here's another tactic that you may or may not want to pursue. So take it or leave it: Get Dr Laura Schlessenger's book ';The proper care and feeding of husbands';. Her approach is to be such a great wife that your husband will ';swim across shark-infested waters to bring you a glass of lemonade.';





But if it turns out that he's not right for you, or you are not right for him, no amount of anything you do will fix this, and you should know pretty quickly if it's time to cut bait and move on.

Soo, when you give oral to your man.. little advice?

Sorry if this sounds inappropriate..


So i have given head to my last boy two times, i was a beginner and didnt really know what i was doing but i guess i did alright, because he 'came' and he liked me better then previous girls.


But now i meet this new boy; we really like each other, and i gave him oral the other night.


Didnt go so well, it felt like i was sucking for dayyss, all i could think about is when is he going to 'come'?? my jaw started to hurt. But i was determined not to just stop :/ Then he said use your hand more. So i incorperate my hand more in the process.. but still no good. So he said just use my hand. And i did. But he STILL didnt 'come'! ugh. So i felt bad when he had to get up and finish it off.


But im just so confused disapointed why i couldnt get him to.. i mean what did i do wrong? I used some tongue technique, deep throat, NO teeth, not like it was my first time..


is it HIM or ME??


how long does it usually take for you/ your lover? Why does the time vary?


any experience out there?


thanks :c]Soo, when you give oral to your man.. little advice?
Sometimes its just the guy, different things do it for different people and depending on many things it may be harder for some guys to get off during head. But as long as you have good technique and do whatever it is the guy says he likes you have no reason to worry, if he doesn't get off its his fault not yours. Just keep trying different things until you find out what works. Whatever you may try don't forget to try to create a suction of a sort a bit like sucking a straw that is the difference between horrible and wonderful for me at least.Soo, when you give oral to your man.. little advice?
No some just don't pop off with a BJ and can only with normal sex or by themselves.
Its Him not you








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all guys are different... some are easy to finish and some are more difficult. so its not you... its def. him
this is actually pretty ironic becuase i talked about this with my partner tonight.. ';its just not the same when some one else does it for you, because they dont know exactly what you want, only you yourself knows what can really hit the spot.';


if you really want to do it for him, you gotta communicate. you have to just be open and ask, ';what do you like, what feels the best, what will make it happen for you';


good luck and remember, practice makes perfect. :)
Different boys come differently.


some get really excited %26lt;.%26lt; and come really easily, and dont last that long, and some take a lot longer to come, and last what seems like forever. Its not either of you lol, its not his fault that hes not like your last, and its not your fault because he takes a long time to come. This has actually kind of happened to me before %26lt;.%26lt; lol. uhmm now it doesnt take thattt long, but try other things than just blowing him (regular sex,unless your like saving yourself, uhm or just rubbing your %26lt;.%26lt; on his %26lt;.%26lt;) trying not to be too explicit., and then get him close and then start, it will be alot easier and he can finish up like that. Also when your blowing him, focus alot more on the head :) its the most sensitive. good luckk
Hey, look, here are some tips for you that might help.





1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.





2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.





3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.





4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his **** tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.





5. Say something like ';mmmmm I love it'; then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.





6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.





7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and **** it out.





8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.





9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.





10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.





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I have been married for 6 months & my husband doesn't like my best friend just cause he is a man. Any advice?

Me %26amp; my bf have been through everything together. We have known each other for at least 10 years. We thought about dating once but realized that we were better off friends. It has been the best friendship I have ever had with a man. I know some people say that your spouse should be your best friend. But why do I have to give up someone that has helped me through some tough times in my life? The last time we were all together, my hubby acted so very horrible. He tried to pick a fight with him for no reason. I was embarrassed. Me %26amp; my bf are like 2 guys. We use 2 talk about everything from his women to my men. Now that I am married %26amp; he is about to get married does that really have to change?I have been married for 6 months %26amp; my husband doesn't like my best friend just cause he is a man. Any advice?
The thing is, when you get married things change a lot. Right now you are telling your husband that he has to share your affection with another man. I know that it is hard on your b/c you friend means a lot to you, but this will make for larger problems in your marriage down the road. Now is the time when you need to be focusing on him. As time goes on and your friend gets married himself or soemthing, maybe everything will even out but for now, it is best to slow things down with your friend.I have been married for 6 months %26amp; my husband doesn't like my best friend just cause he is a man. Any advice?
Normal.
imagine he had a best f female it would bother u....
Do you get mad when he talks to girls? If you do, then he is doing the same thing to you. But you can be friends with you ever you please.
marraige trumps friends any day. You two have made a commitment to build a life together. Gotta get rid of that guy friend.
Maybe he feels he is married to you and your friend, how much time do you spend talking to this friend? I agree with tcc how would you feel if he had a best female friend? I am thinking you wouldn't but that is a guess. Things change when you get married, not saying you shouldn't have male friends, but maybe you should talk to and LISTEN to why he doesn't want you to be best Friends with him. He could have a very good reason for it. Remember communication is essential in a relationship.
To a man...... another man who knows his wife better than he does... is a threat. Your husband could be the most enlightened man ever, but on some level he is going to see your best friend in that way, and that will probably never change.





You have to decide what's more important..... a friend...... or the man you made vows to.





When I got married, my best friend (who is a guy) and I couldn't hang out like we used to. Now we are both divorced and we can hang out anytime we want... but that's not the point. When we married, we both made vows to put our wives ahead of the rest of the world... that's what a real man does. That is what your husband wants to do.......... and your continued relationship with another man is a threat.





Find new friends. You can have the occasional phone call... or email.... but to hang out with another guy isn't fair to your husband. YOU wouldn't like him hanging out with another woman....





Good luck.............
I have the same problem, my best friend is my ex- girlfriend...


And her man, is trying to understand, but he blows up at her for hanging with me...





All can say, is given the oportunity, I will eventually make a move for my ex... unless the guy is gay, you can count on something happening. If not initiated by you, then by him.
lol,


we men are not as broadminde as the girls.


for marital bliss, u will have to cut down on with ur friendship.
I can understand how your husband feels threatened by your best friend being a male, but he was your best friend before you married, and you shouldn't have to give that friendship up. Perhaps once he's married, your husband will feel more comfortable about the friendship, if not, you may be forced to choose between them. Talk to your husband about the situation, and see if you can resolve the issue. Good luck!
well are you sure that he's not the second love as your badge says.............
Hmmm鈥?this is difficult and it depends. The question is: why is he jealous? Is he an insecure person or does he feel he doesn't trust you? I think you need to chat about the reasons why he doesn't approve..
Yes, it has already changed. Your husband is not comfortable with it and his new wife is not going to be. There is always the question in the spouse's mind about what is really going on--no matter what you say. The only way it might work is if the 4 of you can do things together. Your husband might settle down a bit once your bf is married.





Even as I write this, I question your relationship with bf, so I can imagine what your husband is thinking.
See my sister, life is sometimes like a trap-pies. You have to balance both the sides in order not to fall down. In your case, before marriage you were a free person, and you had all rights to act according to your interests. But a marriage is not just tying a knot between two individuals. It is a mutual promise to live together till the death of one or both by abiding all social traditions and limitations. A husband will be acting like your's in two occasions.


1. When he is so much of possessive and selfish in your love.


2. When he feel that the other person his spouse is mingling with is ahead in terms of smartness (both physical / behavioral)





Whatever may be the case if he does not like you to closely mingling with another person, just limit your involvement in the other relationship whatever answer may you have to justify such relationship. Suppose tomorrow if he will bring another lady to home and say that ';she is my best friend';, how you will react. Just come to his shoes and think. Gradually try to convince him that there is nothing between you and your friend. When time passes he will have maturity to understand the purity of such relationship and everything will be normal. Till then don't be aggressive of your self ego. That will spoil your life. Wish you all success and a long/happy married life





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It sounds like your husband is jealous. Eventually you will have to choose, unless your friend is gay - then your husband should not care, but I think in the back of his head he will have doubts about your past with your bf -some guys are just very insecure like that.
Well then, you should have married the BF. Seems you care more for him that the hubby.





BTW, your hubby wants the relationship you have with the BF, that is why he picks a fight.
reassure him that your just friends...nothing more, nothing less...and only bang your husband
There is nothing wrong with having a best friend of the opposite sex, but it sounds like you landed a hubby that doesn't see it that way. You are in a tough spot because you are already married. It isn't so easy to tell him if he keeps up this close minded attitude you'll walk.


Just because others say your spouse is supposed to be your best friend doesn't mean that they are right.
It seems to me that you husband is jealous that you seem to have a better conncetion with your best guy friend than you husband. He probably feels left out. Talk to him, all the three ouf you go out together. Have fun. Get them two to click the way you did. Don't completely leave your husband out in the cold. I think he's really jealous, tell him that he is about to get married and that he has nothing to be afraid of. Reassure your husband that you still love him, and that you wouldn't jepordise your realtionship. But also tell him that you can't just throw away a good friendship like that because it wouldn't make you happy and I'm sure your husband only wants the best for you. I don't know there's not much I can really say now, but good luck and if your friendship with that guy is as good as you say it is then don't give it up, but talk to your husband and good luck again.
It is beautiful to have such a friend as you have described and at the same time I can understand how your husband feels. He wants to be your best friend. Hopefully in time he will be able to accept your friendship with your best friend. If he doesn't then I can see trouble in your marriage. See if he and your hubby can get together and do guy things, you know get to know one another as friends also.
Your husband should've learned to deal with his jealousy issues before he married you.
UNFORTUNATELY, YOU MUST CHOOSE! Keep a bf you have had for 10 years, or stay with a husband that you have committed to for life! SIMPLE AS THAT.





All of my friends are men and going into any relationship, I have to get acceptance for that or I will not pursue the relationship. I AM NOT WILLING FROM DAY ONE. DID YOUR HUSBAND NOT SAY THAT ALL ALONG?





GOOD LUCK.
No it shouldn鈥檛 have to. You鈥檝e given your husband no reason not to trust you and he knew from the beginning who your best friend was. Tell him that if he didn鈥檛 trust you then he shouldn鈥檛 have married you. He needs to stop punishing you and your best friend just because he has insecurities. Good luck.
My best friend is also a guy, he and I talk about everything, always have and its awesome. My hubby thankfully doesnt get jealous of him, he trusts me and is secure in our relationship. My hubby also has a close female friend and I dont get jealous either. Its all about trust, assuming you have never done anything to damage his trust in you, he should trust you. Maybe include him when you guys get together, double date with your best friend and his girlfriend, maybe the more your hubby gets to know him the less he will be a pain in the a$$.
You are not getting the gravity of how serious this is. You need to bond as one EMOTIONALLY ONLY with your husband as the only male in your life. I had a situation similar to yours and never considered it was a problem til the shoe was on the other foot. How would you feel if your husband had a die hard emotional relationship with a female and the two of you had hard times. Who would you turn to? You both are setting yourselves up for failure in your marriage. All the good connections you have with your friend you should choose to develop with your husband if he is more important to you. Good Luck! Natasha
Ur husband is right my ex wife had a best Friend (man ) n she cheated on me with him it all started out ow were just Friends


but u never know ........


so i don't blame him for b Inga that way n b side may b he sees something Ur not like the way Ur Friend looking at u ....!!!!
You and your husband need to sit down and talk this through.





You haven't given your husband any reason to not trust you or your friend, so I don't know why he's acting this way now.
Ok, so do I agree that your husband should see the relationship for what it is and let it go...yes.





Do I agree that you have the right to see your best friend anyway...NO.





Your husband is being insecurre. But you did vow to hold him above all others. If other reasoning doesn't work, you should stop seeing your best friend. Sorry.

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Help with getting a second date!? Need a man's advice!?

Hi, I need a man's advice badly. I am on several online dating sites, and I get a lot of attention. Without sounding superficial, I am decently cute (I'm a thin blonde girl, 30). However, after the first date, I usually never hear from these guys again. Is there a clue/action guys are looking for so they know the girl won't shoot them down for a second date? Or am I supposed to ask? I just went on a date with one I really liked- I texted him yesterday and didn't hear anything back. I really want to keep this one interested. What should be the next move? Guys if you could help me out understanding what is the best way to get and keep a guy's interest I'd be so grateful :)Help with getting a second date!? Need a man's advice!?
Watch the following movieHelp with getting a second date!? Need a man's advice!?
Be cool. Don't txt him too much. You will look desperate and guys like me don't like that. If he never contacts you ever again Get OFF THE COMPUTER. Go to the mall a meet people dont be a crab living in a shell. e social and you will find your soulmate.

Is it weird to date a guy that is 14 yrs older? advice on dating an older man?

I'm 22 and he's 36 he has his career and I'll starting one once i graduate from college. What are some of advantage and disadvantage of dating a older guy?Is it weird to date a guy that is 14 yrs older? advice on dating an older man?
Ever since high school I've only dated older men. There are good points and bad. I like the fact that they are usually settled, mature, experienced, not into beating around the bush and willing to do anything to please you. They also tend to be more adventurous because you bring out the young side in them. They enjoy opening you up to new experiences and introducing you to different things that you would have never imaged at a young age. You can learn a lot from older men. The down points are that sometimes they tend to act as though they are your father. They feel that they know everything because you are younger and dumber. They will also take you for granted because they feel that you should be grateful that you are with them....but what man doesn't think that way...lol.Is it weird to date a guy that is 14 yrs older? advice on dating an older man?
i'd say don't do it... unless u have no intention of marriage.


I know this guy who married a woman like 13 years younger than him. they had a child and then everything fell apart - they divorced.


Did you ever have this problem with your parents of a lack of common interests? Its a generation gap between the two of you. your going to have a bit of trouble staying together but thats only my opinion.


there have been success stories but if it was me, id say don't even go there!!
he is experienced, um, he'll be an old dad.
You go, girl!


Livin' the dream...ahhh...


anyways, hmm, can't admit I have similar experience (sadly), but at least you'll be out of school soon, right?! So you'll basically be on the same page..he'll just be a few years ahead. But he's not ready to retire, is he? So no worries love. :)

All I need is a MATURE MAN'S advice plzz!!!?

Me and this guy haven't seen or talked to eachother in about 2 1/2 years. We used to be really good freinds and hung out a lot. About a month ago I found him on facebook and we've been writing on eachother's walls since. He's really really talkative and friendly and nice when he writes back-And he writes a lot =). Anyways, so I want to hang out with him...Do you think he wants to hang out? If he does, then why hasn't he asked?





P.S. We are both 16.All I need is a MATURE MAN'S advice plzz!!!?
He's probably just shy. It's a lot less stressful to talk to people online then to be with them in person. Ask him out. He's probably hoping you will make the first move.All I need is a MATURE MAN'S advice plzz!!!?
maybe your not the only one in his life, im not tryin to be mean but maybe he hangs out with allot of friends and is popular.
well im 15 so i must be a mature man huh?





Anyways yeah im sure asking him out to starbucks for coffee isnt a bad idea or sumtin like that

Need advice, ive tried to repress my feelings but i care for and love a man whose 12 years ol?

i need advice, cos i either need to move onto another place and forget it all





or stay in the same place, and still try bury the feelings





ive tried doing the latter and its very hard.





im dont think i should say anything





any advice?Need advice, ive tried to repress my feelings but i care for and love a man whose 12 years ol?
it really depends on your age, if you are over 18, i don't see the problem in the age gap, my ex hubby was 12 years older, my present hubby is 22 years older, if he feels the same way and is 'free' then go for itNeed advice, ive tried to repress my feelings but i care for and love a man whose 12 years ol?
well if he's younger than u i think its best if u guy just stay as friends and just not huck up (go out)
try to keep yourself busy


hang out with friends more


take up a new hobby


do all those things on your to do list


find someone you like better


move on


join a club
oh that doesn't mean anything it's just like fancying a teacher my mate fancied a 34 year old teacher when he was just 7 :) it will be fine
12 years old....or 12 years older...bit unclear...if he is 12 years old...forget it - he is a child!!





OH...my hubby is 10 years older than me...12 years is no big deal...sometimes a relationship works well when there is an age gap....don't worry!

Please read!!!! im a woman who needs help with my car, needs a mans advice.?

hom much does a heating coil cost for a 2006 chevy colbolt. im having mist coming out of my ac, my coolant keeps leaking, and im having to refill it!!.im having a dripping problem coming out onto my floor board. and had 2 people tell me it probably my heating coil. whats your advice on how much this would cost me. i dont have to much money, im pregnant and need to get a good deal, im having it rough!!! i hate having this problem when im about to have my son. any one out here can tell me what they think the problem is???Please read!!!! im a woman who needs help with my car, needs a mans advice.?
If there are no heater hoses going from the water pump directly to the heater core it's safe to bypass the the core completely. Auto-parts stores have an inexpensive plastic step-fitting which allows you to clamp the two different sized heater hoses together. ** If there is a hose going out of the water pump to the heater core on the firewall do not just clamp it off. You must provide a bypass with the same type fitting as above to the second heater hose from the engine.











If you can't afford having it repaired ASAP go to a Carquest auto parts store and buy a 4 or 8 lb. radiator pressure cap. Replace the present one with the new one when the motor is stone cold. Make sure the radiator is filled to the top with plain distilled water for now.





The object of doing this is with the new 4 or 8 pound pressure cap, the cooling system can't build as much pressure and leak through the heater core which is up under your dash on firewall the passengers side.





Double check your warranty. It's 36,000 miles bumper to bumper.





I tend to agree with others above who have said you should have your work done at a Chevrolet dealer. I'm ashamed to say that all heater cores are made outside our borders now. Radiators and heater cores aren't built like they once were here in America at Harrison Radiator in Lockport NY.Please read!!!! im a woman who needs help with my car, needs a mans advice.?
if you go to repair place learn from school of hard knocks... go to to ASE certified mechanic and even consider using dealer.. cheaper to have it done right in the first place adn spend more than to go to place that charges less but takes advantage of ignorance of auto repair.
call three local shops ask how much to replace heater core wil be either a heater core or a bad heater hose sorry but its a pain something cant do at home yourself 200 bucks or more might bypass heater hose for a time but then you wil not have any heat in car but could still drive it that way
Does sound like the heater core, find a reputable independent shop/ shop around not just price, but reputation too. If they treat you badly, or as if your not very smart , go elsewhere. A Good business will walk you thru .
It may be just a loose clamp. have it inspected first. If OK, consult your owner's manual. The vehicle may be still under warranty. If you are unsure, contact your local GM dealer's service department.





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something with your air conditioner...


might as well just take it to the mechanic cause its not like if you know how to fix it yourself right?
pour a can of black pepper in the radiator that will take care of your problem
Kelly_f_ is right. This sounds like a heater core going bad. The heater core is responsible for heating your car when you switch the thermostat over towards the ';warm'; side of the spectrum. Bad ones will typically leak engine coolant (often seen as ';water';) into the passenger floorboard, as you describe.





It's easily a $200 job, as others have noted, if not more than that. But it'll probably be worth the cost-- these are very hard to replace at home, and it doesn't sound like you'd be capable of doing so, anyway.





Your Cobalt is only a 2006-- it might still be under warranty, if you're lucky. Call your nearest Chevrolet dealer and ask them if your car is still under its 3-year/36,000 mile warranty (assuming you haven't put more than 36,000 on it by now). If you're out of warranty, go to a private mechanic who you feel you can trust. If it is under warranty, Chevy will probably replace it free of charge if you press them about it.